It’s actually really easy to NOT date/be with shytty people

[OnlyOneBoss]

Once you learn a little bit about physiology and watch a few YouTube therapy videos avoiding toxic people is a necessity.

If you fukin a lot of broads you’re dealing with toxic women. Any girl who letting you hit without being in a relationship is toxic.

Imma be honest breh. I made this thread cause I speak from experience

My vice USED to be blonde women with terrible personalities and fat asses. I had no idea WHY that was what I pursued either

Once I learned about how we get trapped in cycles and the people we attract are who we are and what we’ve grown to desire, I snapped out of it. Not immediately but after a few months I realized I’m better than that

 

[god shamgod]

People in general need to step their standards up & stop settling

I know mad people settling just cuz they don’t wanna be alone. My home girl engaged to a nikka she don’t even like ,she likes the perks not him.all she does is roast this cat every time I talk to her

 

[inndaskKy]

Once you learn a little bit about physiology and watch a few YouTube therapy videos avoiding toxic people is a necessity.

If you fukin a lot of broads you’re dealing with toxic women. Any girl who letting you hit without being in a relationship is toxic.

You pick your women by their liver function or something?

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

People in general need to step their standards up & stop settling

I know mad people settling just cuz they don’t wanna be alone. My home girl engaged to a nikka she don’t even like ,she likes the perks not him.all she does is roast this cat every time I talk to her

what kinda standards we talkin about? a lot of folks are just immature and want shallow shyt but at the same time want stability and someone who will spend time with them after sex

so if the issue is dude is "lame" what is the solution? she prolly at an age where she wants to be taken care of but the dudes who get her coochie wet AND got bread/status (real life status not hood shyt) don't want her, so she's stuck.

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

As a 36 year old man I agree. As a 22 year old man it's hard because toxic p*ssy is A1 and toxic women can be very easy to socialize and hang out with.


A1 p*ssy, cute smile, nice shape and generally fun to be around, no man's coming out of High School with the skillset to deal with that.

Idgaf how you much you cleaned up in High School.

I kinda agree. Up until a point I can’t blame the person themselves TOO much cause you’re still a product of your environment and what you were taught growing up.

But at 26 now I can say I’m much smarter at picking women and who I lay with.

Between 18-23 I had sex with 27 women. Between 23-26 it’s been 1 woman

 

[Fillerguy]

Decent ppl boo decent ppl everyday. We just be hearing the miserable and loud minority. Go where you are wanted. Miserable, toxic people go after people who put up with that bullshyt. They do it because they can get away with on certain ppl.

If everyone you meet isn't dating material, you're the problem. But it's easier to blame the other side instead of ourselves.

 

[god shamgod]

what kinda standards we talkin about? a lot of folks are just immature and want shallow shyt but at the same time want stability and someone who will spend time with them after sex

so if the issue is dude is "lame" what is the solution? she prolly at an age where she wants to be taken care of but the dudes who get her coochie wet AND got bread/status (real life status not hood shyt) don't want her, so she's stuck.

Get someone who lives up to the standards you want in a spouse or be alone/smash whatever until you find that

The bolded exactly what it is ,she’s 41 and hadn’t been in a relationship in years the last 2 dudes she wanted cheated on her.this my homie I’ve known her since 2004 she tells me everything

She just wants to be with someone she fukks with,but doesn’t like this dude like that. If dude knew half the shyt I know he’d break that engagement off cuz she’s definitely fukkin other dudes.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Most people be scared to leave especially when the sex is good

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Get someone who lives up to the standards you want in a spouse or be alone/smash whatever until you find that

The bolded exactly what it is ,she’s 41 and hadn’t been in a relationship in years the last 2 dudes she wanted cheated on her.this my homie I’ve known her since 2004 she tells me everything

She just wants to be with someone she fukks with,but doesn’t like this dude like that. If dude knew half the shyt I know he’d break that engagement off cuz she’s definitely fukkin other dudes.

he lost for being engaged to a 41 yr old. unless he 50 himself

old ass hoe (sorry i know thats ur homie) can't even give him kids

 

[re'up]

It takes a lot of self awareness to recognize your own patterns, and change them, or at least be aware the blindspots they may create.

 

[rabbid]

Her having a fat ass should NOT come before her being a decent person

nah u right. I feel like most girls with super phat asses be horrible people forreal. I'm happy with a little bubble that sits up when she's laying on her stomach. too much more than that and you're asking for hell.

 

[JNew]

You pick your women by their liver function or something?

physiology*

 

[JNew]

what kinda standards we talkin about? a lot of folks are just immature and want shallow shyt but at the same time want stability and someone who will spend time with them after sex

so if the issue is dude is "lame" what is the solution? she prolly at an age where she wants to be taken care of but the dudes who get her coochie wet AND got bread/status (real life status not hood shyt) don't want her, so she's stuck.

Be a man.

If your a lame be the best lame you can be. Not saying it will still work out for the lame but at least he will be happy. Nowadays "lames" go overseas for relationships and its probably going to become normal in the next few decades. Dudes who be on that smash and dash after their 30s are still boys and become lames with time, cause once you get your bread up your realize paying for it is alot easier and cheaper in the long run then chasing skirts. You also understand the importance of keeping good company around you.

Now with the internet woman's whole game is exposed and even lames aint settling for these ran throw hoes.

 

[inndaskKy]

Once you learn a little bit about physiology* and watch a few YouTube therapy videos avoiding toxic people is a necessity.

You pick your women by their liver function or something?

physiology*

 

[maxamusa]

NAH OP



in my heyday I was the king of getting "you've changed"