i can't control a grown human being. if she decides she wants to cheat, then so be it. she won't be with me tho. i can flip that "love" switch on and off VERY easily. i can love you to death, but when i decide that i'm done with your bullshyt, i can dismiss you like i never knew you. i don't cry over women. too many chicks on the planet to trip over 1 that wont act right. like right now...my wife and i are working on things right now. if she decides to cheat instead, i have absolutely NO issue with putting her to the curb. even after 13 years. i have NO tolerance for cheating at all. you get NO chances.