It Feels Good Loving Somebody And That Somebody Loves You Back

mag357

Superstar
Joined
Jan 4, 2017
Messages
18,580
Reputation
35
Daps
57,289
I get what you're saying....not the situation I'm currently in but I've witnessed this with side chics :ehh: I couldn't be in a relationship with a chic that I felt didn't love me more than I loved her. I have to be the prize.

Just curious...
Why u say that's not the situation that ur currently in?
What's the difference?
 

G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman

Logic Is Absent Wherever Hate Is Present
Joined
May 12, 2012
Messages
79,939
Reputation
5,706
Daps
234,987
Just curious...
Why u say that's not the situation that ur currently in?
What's the difference?
Because in those situations the man is usually the one that puts the woman on the pedestal. My woman spends more money on me than I've spent on her. I have full access to her phone and social media etc...not that I utilize it but she goes out of her way to be transparent.

With all that being said I realize that in any relationship you don't control that person and they could do whatever they want...the only thing I have control over is choosing someone with good character and values and my response to their actions.
 

mag357

Superstar
Joined
Jan 4, 2017
Messages
18,580
Reputation
35
Daps
57,289
Because in those situations the man is usually the one that puts the woman on the pedestal. My woman spends more money on me than I've spent on her. I have full access to her phone and social media etc...not that I utilize it but she goes out of her way to be transparent.

With all that being said I realize that in any relationship you don't control that person and they could do whatever they want...the only thing I have control over is choosing someone with good character and values and my response to their actions.

Facts .... character, morals, and having values is a great characteristics in a woman.
I'm saying, did she all of a sudden start having these "morals, values and good character" when she started fukking with u?
What was her resume before she met u. She has kids? Was she celibate before she met u?
I dnt think nikkaz really get what I'm saying because if a woman shows she cares... it's like look " she cares about me... she did this and that for me"...
But if u ain't the nikka she really wants to be with, ur just the good dude who shes settling for... itll show its ugly head eventually
 

Carlton Banks

Upper Class
Bushed
Supporter
Joined
Dec 9, 2014
Messages
20,760
Reputation
2,981
Daps
79,116
I'll see yall nikkaz when all that shyt fades...

It's a difference between her loving you and her choosing you...
Get chose bruh

This. My girl messaged me first. She pays for majority of our dates, initiates sex most of the time, constantly tells me compliments about how handsome and sexy a breh is, and overall treats a nikka like a God :ahh:


Wouldn't have it any other way :banderas:
 

the cool

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
23,824
Reputation
-7,603
Daps
50,274
Just broke up with my girl after 6 years. We were and still are in love. Still didnt fukking work:mjlol:

So now Im just working out, trying to eat right, blazing, and saving my money. fukk everything else:yeshrug:
thats a long time did ya'll have kids. how old are you
 

Jerz-2

GOATs Status
Joined
May 8, 2012
Messages
14,944
Reputation
4,678
Daps
54,787
Finding peace and stability....and then getting that real love.

It’s a different world once you’ve got it.

Yes indeed....but it takes maturity on both parties' parts, and alotta cats/ladies ain't got it.
 

G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman

Logic Is Absent Wherever Hate Is Present
Joined
May 12, 2012
Messages
79,939
Reputation
5,706
Daps
234,987
Facts .... character, morals, and having values is a great characteristics in a woman.
I'm saying, did she all of a sudden start having these "morals, values and good character" when she started fukking with u?
What was her resume before she met u. She has kids? Was she celibate before she met u?
I dnt think nikkaz really get what I'm saying because if a woman shows she cares... it's like look " she cares about me... she did this and that for me"...
But if u ain't the nikka she really wants to be with, ur just the good dude who shes settling for... itll show its ugly head eventually
Neither of us have kids. As far as those values and morals prior to me....I'm sure they were there but as long as she wasn't a hoe I don't care :manny:
 

mag357

Superstar
Joined
Jan 4, 2017
Messages
18,580
Reputation
35
Daps
57,289
Neither of us have kids. As far as those values and morals prior to me....I'm sure they were there but as long as she wasn't a hoe I don't care :manny:

I feel u...
She sounds like a good catch.
But honestly bruh, u have to care...
The type of dudes she's dealt with are more important to knowing who she really is than anything.

What Happened in those relationships are important too...
I'm sure u 2 have talked about y'alls past relationship experiences... anything standout?
 
Top