Is there anything more demoralizing
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yes and that"s definitely one he should have picked.DaRealness
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lol exactly.
DaRealness
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Also, the fact a chick may be earning more money than you is irrelevant. I don't care if I'm on minimum wage and you make 7 figures. The same rules apply.
money = power
The man is powerless because if he runs his mouth, she will put him out.
Most men who get treated like shyt in relationships usually make less money than the woman.
in that situation he still could have power. he is only powerless if he decides that leaving is not an option. in other words, he is powerless because he has decided he depends on her. Once he wakes up and realizes that he doesn't need her, he can still be a leader in the relationship even if she makes more than him.
DaRealness
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You can have all the "power" in the world, I'll never in this life be put in a position where I'm having to tread on eggshells in order not to rock the boat with a chick. Fukk that. One thing these 'men' have to ask themselves is how were they living all that time before they met the woman they're with? Are you a leader or not?
No dude should ever move into a woman's home anyway.
However, back to my point, if you respect yourself and know how to make moves, then no woman has "power" over you, period. You can't put a price on your dignity and self worth. The minute you put yourself into a precarious situation like that without having your own shyt together first, then you've immediately put yourself at a huge disadvantage.
Verbal abuse is not okay.
I saw a chick get in a dude's face at the mall last week over nothing. I was worried he was about to smoosh her ass. Dude played it real cool though. If it had been a reverse sistuation the whole mall would have been up in arms. But everyone just ignored it. I can't understand relationships where people talk to each other crazy. I've never had a relationship like that.
I have a friend who likes to go in on folks and tried that shyt on me once. We had a nice calm quick chat and never had the problem since. Dude even talks to me in low soft voice now.
I saw a chick get in a dude's face at the mall last week over nothing. I was worried he was about to smoosh her ass. Dude played it real cool though. If it had been a reverse sistuation the whole mall would have been up in arms. But everyone just ignored it. I can't understand relationships where people talk to each other crazy. I've never had a relationship like that.
I have a friend who likes to go in on folks and tried that shyt on me once. We had a nice calm quick chat and never had the problem since. Dude even talks to me in low soft voice now.
[quote"Chris.B, post: 5964145, member: 4382"]money = power
The man is powerless because if he runs his mouth, she will put him out.
Most men who get treated like shyt in relationships usually make less money than the woman.[/quote]
This isn't always true. My coworkers son is probably the biggest bytch I know, and makes way more money than his girl. She talks to him and treats him any kind of way. What's worse is he also lets her disrespect his mother. Some men are just bytches.
The man is powerless because if he runs his mouth, she will put him out.
Most men who get treated like shyt in relationships usually make less money than the woman.[/quote]
This isn't always true. My coworkers son is probably the biggest bytch I know, and makes way more money than his girl. She talks to him and treats him any kind of way. What's worse is he also lets her disrespect his mother. Some men are just bytches.
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
This isn't always true. My coworkers son is probably the biggest bytch I know, and makes way more money than his girl. She talks to him and treats him any kind of way. What's worse is he also lets her disrespect his mother. Some men are just bytches.[/quote]
