I mean ok.
Coli definition is very clear
Example: opening a door for a woman
How often? Said simp is dating? We need way more details thenWhat if they get laid too?
JudgeJoeForilla
Richest Broke Ni99a You'll Never Meet
You'll spend a shyt load of money and your dikk will still be dry.
I don't even know what simpin is either on the coli
Exactly, it creates a power struggle. A man puts himself in a subservient/submissive position under a woman in hopes of winning them over, without the female bringing anything to the table.
Yes.
As of this moment I'm done being a nice guy to women honestly. Nothing actually happened to me to make me feel this way, but I finally seen things for the way they are after general reflection.
I'm not HOH or hate women. I still support women, but as far as being who I am, which is naturally kind hearted person with a sense of humor, that opened myself up to women and was willing to text or speak with them at any time of night including 3, 4am just to be that open ear they needed (which has happened in the past, many old text convos at that time of night), that's done a lot of people over the years without expecting anything back, that's out the window.
I'll still do things for people if my card is pulled. I just won't have that same attitude toward women anymore.
I realized that the key is to be selfish and do for yourself. If women want to converse with you then they will. They already know who they plan on texting/PM'ing/calling and it ain't you. If you not on they list, don't try to be a nice guy thinking they will suddenly have more interest in speaking to you because it will not happen. They are attracted to who they are attracted to. They like who they like. If they don't like you enough and you know what you have to offer in friendship or more, move on.
Take control over your value instead of letting them determine your value.
As of this moment I'm done being a nice guy to women honestly. Nothing actually happened to me to make me feel this way, but I finally seen things for the way they are after general reflection.
I'm not HOH or hate women. I still support women, but as far as being who I am, which is naturally kind hearted person with a sense of humor, that opened myself up to women and was willing to text or speak with them at any time of night including 3, 4am just to be that open ear they needed (which has happened in the past, many old text convos at that time of night), that's done a lot of people over the years without expecting anything back, that's out the window.
I'll still do things for people if my card is pulled. I just won't have that same attitude toward women anymore.
I realized that the key is to be selfish and do for yourself. If women want to converse with you then they will. They already know who they plan on texting/PM'ing/calling and it ain't you. If you not on they list, don't try to be a nice guy thinking they will suddenly have more interest in speaking to you because it will not happen. They are attracted to who they are attracted to. They like who they like. If they don't like you enough and you know what you have to offer in friendship or more, move on.
Take control over your value instead of letting them determine your value.
This my new outlook i had to do the exact same things. Learned a hard lesson.
SheWantTheD
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Simps get played and used.
Plus simps cosign women's bullshyt behavior in attempt to get p*ssy. Like dudes that will side with obvious bullshyt that many women will agree with. For example, a simp would cosign women wearing weaves, wigs, chemically altering their hair on some "it's your hair, you can do whatever you want to it!". Look at Matt504's posts. He says shyt simps would say but deep down don't agree with in hopes a woman would have sex with him.
Dating and the "game" is brutal in today's world. Guys who are overly nice get used, played and end up getting nothing in return. Simps give give give, and never take. When a man simps he basically places the woman on a pedestal and acts as if she's the prize and he's lucky to be with her.. all without really knowing her.
Simping isn't a problem if it's being reciprocated, but if that were the case then it wouldn't be simping.
Women do not respect simps. Trust me. Deep down on some level they feel as if they don't deserve the stuff he does or gives them, so they see it as him trying to buy their love/being disingenuous. Women don't like being pedestalized right from the get go, they feel the guy is acting too nice and not being himself.
Simping is basically overlooking yourself for another woman that doesn't deserve it, isn't in a place where you should be placing her before you etc. It's like dude's fighting another dude cause he looked at his girl.
Plus simps cosign women's bullshyt behavior in attempt to get p*ssy. Like dudes that will side with obvious bullshyt that many women will agree with. For example, a simp would cosign women wearing weaves, wigs, chemically altering their hair on some "it's your hair, you can do whatever you want to it!". Look at Matt504's posts. He says shyt simps would say but deep down don't agree with in hopes a woman would have sex with him.
Dating and the "game" is brutal in today's world. Guys who are overly nice get used, played and end up getting nothing in return. Simps give give give, and never take. When a man simps he basically places the woman on a pedestal and acts as if she's the prize and he's lucky to be with her.. all without really knowing her.
Simping isn't a problem if it's being reciprocated, but if that were the case then it wouldn't be simping.
Women do not respect simps. Trust me. Deep down on some level they feel as if they don't deserve the stuff he does or gives them, so they see it as him trying to buy their love/being disingenuous. Women don't like being pedestalized right from the get go, they feel the guy is acting too nice and not being himself.
Simping is basically overlooking yourself for another woman that doesn't deserve it, isn't in a place where you should be placing her before you etc. It's like dude's fighting another dude cause he looked at his girl.
SheWantTheD
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Real talk. A lot of them will only reach out to you when they are bored, got no man or anyone to give them male attention. I bet a couple of those girls bytched and complained to you about how guys ain't shyt.
That's technically not simping tho