Some of the guys that were exposed in that thread were genuine good guys who just wanted to talk to somebody' especially that twan83 dude who has been nothing but a respectable gentleman towards her but obviously that don't mean shyt to her and she just let illa throw him under the bus for nothing. I've seen this shyt play out in real life too, women will throw their so called male friends in the bushes as soon as they get a boyfriend, why even be friendly and respectful when they're just gonna throw it back in your face somewhere down the line?
Look at from her perspective
She's 40 with at least 2 kids,
She doesn't wanna be lonely and her time in her "prime" is running out.
She found someone that's willing to take her on so she has to cut ties and show loyalty.
You guys are online, that other guy is there in person.
She doesn't really know any of you outside of here.
She made the right move all things considered