Is she right?

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Saw the thread title and said nope

Same can be said for the ‘similar threads’ mentioned below (also made by you), which I didn’t read

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/is-she-right-ladies-and-fellas-chime-in.1042659/

 

[Still Benefited]

What is this,1960 where you have to make yourself look good for your man like a Stepford wife


This is so passe. Many righteous black men have gotten into womens fashion. So we are now able to assess and dress our women so that they look good to us specefically. Not every man is capable,check your astrology to understand your limitations

 

[TEH]

She’s not stupid; that’s just old-school thinking, and it actually makes sense. That’s how older folks kept their partners in check back in the day. If you come home and see your partner looking rough all the time, you're gonna start to wonder—and maybe even wander.

 

[TEH]

Delete

 

[Mike Nasty]

She's not saying she won't put in the effort, she just complaining men don't have to. (Which isn't true)

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

She got a point but she also lost her point referring to herself as a “cis woman”. fukk all that weird ass political correctness bullshyt.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

She's not saying she won't put in the effort, she just complaining men don't have to. (Which isn't true)

Eh, brehs on here are constantly saying men’s looks don’t matter as long as you have a good mouthpiece. Women are expected to look good to keep a mate, while men should only work on their personality. The dating advice women get is to date a man they aren’t attracted to, or else be alone. Meanwhile, women have to look nice just to get approached by ugly guys.

 

[Amo Husserl]

No.

 

[Vandelay]

Once a person uses stuff like Cis to characterize normal people, I cease listening to them. I already know their take will be some BS.

I legit hate the term cis. It literally makes me turn my brain off to whatever someone is saying.

 

[TEH]

Why she assuming males and females are the same?
"autonomy to performance & objectification..." maybe Rihanna made an autonomous decision as a cis gendered woman in a domestic relationship to look presentable for the father of her children. Presentation matters... like we see you because we got eyeballs babe.

Not everything revolves around your petty attitude and unresolved trauma. Not every relationship is oppressive on the woman, and if a woman decides she wants to look good for her man then... like... so?


See... this is what happen when you take another's idea of liberation as your own.

Why don't other women have a problem choosing to be demure?
Why is choosing to present yourself a certain way for your man problematic and traumatizing?

If I was a white man satisfying your material desires would things be different?

 

[RamsayBolton]

 

[☃ ೋ]

A dirty weave, septum ring, and atleast 190lbs - Who wouldve thought

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

everybody can't be a natural beauty

 

[010101]

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