If that's the only way to get out of "serious time" and stay free, I'll deal with my other issues later.
Plenty of women out there. I'm not letting my pain over one take precedence over my own life and my future. Being "cheated" on is 100 time better than being unemployed for the rest of my life.
If I'm going to jail for a long time, I'm assuming any woman I'm with is gonna pursue her own romantic life while I'm there anyway. Even if she don't tell me. Lets not play dumb cus "love."
It's a lose-lose tragic moment no matter what. Might as well suck up my pride and accept whatever it takes to get out of a bad situation for life.
To be honest I'd let her do it, never talk about it, and just slowly let the relationship deteriorate on its own rather than betray her or straight up break up. It's sad cus she only doing it to hold my no-good ass down in this situation. Not cus she wants to cheat. But by the end of the day if a relationship feels stained and no longer sexy to you, it's best to go instead of holding in that resentment.
She always gonna be my homegirl regardless tho. Would only lose contact if she insists. I would definitely still owe her for that in some way, even if its just friendship and support.