This whole thread demonstrates part of the reasons for the very high sti and out-of-wedlock birth rates in our communities. The lack of self-control, ignorance, and in other threads hypocrisy around issues partially stemming from this are shameful, This is especially the case when many of you here should absolutely know better, have the willpower to do better, and are at least working to becoming better.
Really, you can't rightfully complain that the females need to do better, when too many of the males are openly demonstrating that they have no intention of doing better themselves. No one intelligent takes a hypocrite on an issue seriously. So if many of you can't control yourselves enough to help reduce the problems stemming from reckless sexual behaviors, then how can you even open your mouth to talk about the reckless sexual behaviors of women without easily being labeled a hypocrite?
There are multiple variables to the problem, don't forget that women are not participating in the problem alone.