To add context I'm talking about fukking the same nikka. He could go for literally hours before bussin. We were just HS kids then. But as I got older and looked back, I wasn't really putting any effort into it.
When I mean wack in bed, I was just kinda laying there and letting him put me in different positions. I wasn't even throwing it back.
But now I know how to run my finger down the back of his ear while I'm riding. How to actually ride instead of just bouncing up and down. Pulling it out in missionary, sucking it, and put it back in. Pulling him close and massaging/ scratching in his hair to simulate both his heads at once. How to use my kegals to squeeze him. I got more in tune with the rhythm of sex. When to speed up and when to slow down. The difference between seduction and just teasing.
There's sooo much women have to learn and unfortunately the older women don't be putting us on game like old men do for young boys.