Is it offensive to ask to touch your hair ?

[OfTheCross]

I just saw this vid and wanted some additional thoughts




edit: tell me what kind of texture your hair is as well. Cause I'm thinking that nappy haired peeps might feel differently than straight haired peeps

 

[Concerning VIolence]

Yes.

Don't even argue.

 

[Prynce]

My hair gets touched all the time by random men and women I don't know. They don't even ask to touch either.

You don't know what it feels like to have some random nikka rubbing your hair in a grocery store.

People do it with no shame either, just coming up and touching another man's head.

 

[Mr Coli]

My hair gets touched all the time by random men and women I don't know. They don't even ask to touch either.

You don't know what it feels like to have some random nikka rubbing your hair in a grocery store.

People do it with no shame either, just coming up and touching another man's head.

You must look like a bytch lmao, nobody iust gonna come n touch my head like I'm a pet

 

[wet landscapes]

theres a lot of times where I want to touch strangers hair

 

[agnosticlady]

People always want to touch my hair when I wear it out. I always say no. When I do my hair for the day I want it to stay that way. I also do not like touching the hair of others.

 

[Blackout]

theres a lot of times where I want to touch strangers hair

You can touch mines

 

[wet landscapes]

You can touch mines

send some in the mail

 

[Prynce]

You must look like a bytch lmao, nobody iust gonna come n touch my head like I'm a pet

I don't

Just people not used to seeing a dark skinned dude with curly hair. Been like that my whole life.

 

[Elle Driver]

I have curly hair with different textures, some parts are more coarse than others. After four days especially in humidity it becomes poofy and huge. People don't touch my hair, they pet it and its offensive. I don't like that shyt at all.

 

[Kitsch]

send some in the mail

 

[M'gann]

Recently got box braids and I see them eyeing my braids but no one has ever actually touched them.

My natural hair is really thick so when I wear it straight sometimes females will come up to me and ask where I got my hair done because my weave looks on point . Thankfully the few times it happens no one has ever touched it.

I don't

Just people not used to seeing a dark skinned dude with curly hair. Been like that my whole life.

Do they ask if you're exotical?

 

[LimitedEdition]

Depends. More often it's the intent that's offensive. People pull my hair a lot. Also they try to touch my scalp. They think it's fake. Looking for tracks or something I guess. It's hella fukking rude. And when I wear my hair curly they have no idea how much frizz they create. You can't rake ur filthy fingers thru my curls. fukking retards.

 

[CinnaSlim]

It's offensive to stick your stranger hands into my fro without permission.

 

[Raptor]

That's fukn annoying. I've been dealing with people touching my hair ever since I was a kid. I used have a mullet and I think I started losing hair from the back from all these older kids pulling my hair, seeing if it was real.
I was a push over as a kid

Edit: I have type 2-3 hair