I agree that arguing is just a form of communication to stem an issue from becoming bigger....you just have to be careful you aren't arguing with someone who just likes to argue and be mad, and careful that that person isn't you. Some ppl argue with blinders on and refuse to see another persons point of view no matter how valid or right they are. Also you have to know when to compromise, when to agree to disagree and when to just let some shyt go.