Is it normal to argue in a relationship every so often, or should a couple argue infrequently?

[PriceisRight]

I have a new love and so far we have blown up at each other at least 4 times this week... So far, we've never gone all day without the dispute being resolved.

Just wondering if this is normal... It's been a while for me.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Infrequently and every so often convey the same thing.

And while some arguments are expected, my husband and I have never blown up at one another... whenever one of us disagrees with the other, we simply talk that shyt out. Screaming and yelling and shyt isn't gonna solve whatever the problem is.

 

[Normalcy]

Something...Something...Meaty

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

An argument every so often is good. I dont trust those relationships where people claim they've never had a disagreement...

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

If you want a long term relationship you better figure out how to resolve arguments. Your only going to get in more.

 

[DuncanWebayama]

if you arguing this much in the beginning it wasn't meant to be honestly. Too many insecurities there

 

[Amy Traphouse]

My husband and I both know how to turn and walk away until we cool down then talk it out later. I can't get down with the screaming and yelling shyt

 

[PriceisRight]

I used stronger language - I should said disagreed more than I would have liked.

I agree about the yellong

Infrequently and every so often convey the same thing.

And while some arguments are expected, my husband and I have never blown up at one another... whenever one of us disagrees with the other, we simply talk that shyt out. Screaming and yelling and shyt isn't gonna solve whatever the problem is.

used

 

[mortuus est]

me and my ex use to argue all the time, shes a bytch

 

[Mickey Kane]

A necessary evil.

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

youre both human. there should be disagreements but never arguing and they shouldnt be happening that frequently. If you can find four things to disagree with in a weeks span then you two aint right for each other.

 

[Paisley Darts]

Relationships go in cycles. It's not going to be all good all the time, but it shouldn't be arguments every other day either.

For the most part, me and my girl only get the arguing when shes on her period. She turns into a whole new person when her aunt is in town. But now I have learned and I try my best to stay out/away from the house that week. It's like I have to basically put her in solitary confinement.

 

[Mr. Negative]

individuals have disagreements.

It's what makes us individuals.

But if you feel like you're always on the verge of blowing up at your S/O.... then you got some unresolved issues somewhere. Either with your S/O or with a past situation that your S/O reminds you of.

 

[PriceisRight]

if you arguing this much in the beginning it wasn't meant to be honestly. Too many insecurities there

This I agree with... It's a little too much, I am on a good roll and I don't do well with people who get in a funk and carry it all day inspite of the blessings they have.

 

[PriceisRight]

individuals have disagreements.

It's what makes us individuals.

But if you feel like you're always on the verge of blowing up at your S/O.... then you got some unresolved issues somewhere. Either with your S/O or with a past situation that your S/O reminds you of.

Naw, he's the grump.

I am too focused on my goals to get my pannies in a bunch for things that don't enhance my life...