And they took away ALL of the media features that came standard with the PS3, so no CD, DVD, Bluray, No saving movies to your HDD/etc.
These things are going away across all platforms and it has nothing to do with Sony. (Also, PS4 can play DVDs and Blu Rays so I'm not sure what you're talking about...and who is using CDs anymore? Do you not have a single blu tooth speaker in your house?).
As for the new games, this gen in particular is the first gen to not introduce a new genre so to speak, to showcase something that wasn't possible last gen.
Graphics improved just a little, framerates less stable, forced to buy a more expensive system to get mildly better graphics.
This gen introduced VR in a way that has not been before. VR doesn't matter to you specifically anymore because while you bragged and bet your coli account on XB1X having VR, the fact that it doesn't have it makes you say VR no longer matters and causes you down play it on PS4. That aside, It's finally more accessible to the masses and is showing some serious potential. The cost of entry has been steep and the launch games were lack luster, but the library has been building and its clear things are going in a great direction.
Sidenote: As a person that actually owns a PS4 Pro, an OG PS4, an XB1, an XB1X and a 4K TV, I can tell you that the actual differences between the OG PS4 vs the OG XB1 and the differences between the PS4 Pro and XB1X are not enough to brag about. The pissing match only continues due to the fan boys and those that have no clue what they are talking about.
I mean, stan wars are funny, but if you want to speak with some degree of intelligence and objectivity, you would have to have actual experience with these things and no talking points from someone else's experience.