is it me or after u turn 25 life gets real, I feel like Im losing my mind

[Chris.B]

at least you realized it early. Some people have this realization when they hit 40....too late

 

[Nigerianwonder]

if your 25 you still have time then. Go to med school, get your mba, or get into a high paying field while you still can and dont look back.

 

[Suicide King]

Because you have to set up your war chest, white people do this, that's why in their 30s they are so wavy.

Between 22 to 30 is when you have to work to establish your self, and build up your resume and repertoire.

Once you hit 30+, its . Everything comes easy.

 

[-DMP-]

i feel u, i save like a mad man....i got hit with some big medical bills...good thing i had some bread tucked away

Thats whats up. I'm working on clearing some debt. hopefully I,ll have my credit card and car paid off in 6 months or less. Looking to open a mutual fund up after that.

-DMP-

 

[Mr. Somebody]

i feel u, but i wanna still get new p*ssy without sneaking around...., Im all fukked up mentally, I would probably break a good girls heart

Dont hurt another human being with your selfishness, friend.

When you screw over a for sure thing trying to get more things friend?, you end up with no things.

Its so demonic, friend.

 

[Kalik]

35 and loving life. Tech is making everything so easy.

 

[Fellatio]

The amazing athiest makes about 2k a month and still has to work part time. You see how popular he is?

 

[LezJepzin]

32 and I'm seeing this But my job situation right now is better than it has EVER been. I got my youthful looks and physique in tact and its easier for me to attain everything than it was during my 20s. Except when it comes to dating. shyt is really bleak where I live and my FB feed makes that more depressing.

I'm coming to the realization that having a meaningful, intimate relationship is just not for me . My lack of luck feels cursed and I don't have time for baggage or games that comes with it anymore.

Oh well, at least I'm not losing my mind

 

[Djimonu]

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[Kilgore Trout]

I found myself at 25 and figured out what I wanted to do/be. I'm so happy I got college out of the way. Now I'm on my hustle/grind an it doesent feel like work.

Start planting seeds now and peeping game from people in the position you want to be in so in your 30s you can handle business on your own terms.

 

[heisenburrr]

if your 25 you still have time then. Go to med school, get your mba, or get into a high paying field while you still can and dont look back.

that's that life he doesn't want breh

Having this career where you have to leech your way up the totem pole until you're 45 and only then do you start making considerable gwap isn't what some people envision as a successful life. Particularly if you are not passionate about your work.

shyttt I'm about right there myself at 23 with only a minor degree completed. I've been fortunate enough to have been able to travel a lot in the last years. Lived 6 months on an island in the Philippines a couple of months ago in the most simple & frugal way of life one could imagine. I had never been so happy in my entire fukking life. Away from all that anxiety and pressure of society. I could give a fukk about being rich if I could live this way for my entire life.

I have no intention of becoming a lawyer, some kind of engineer or a doctor and I certainly won't be some clerical cubicle slave trading his life away for a couple of dollars.

If you feel the same way, your only way out is to nurture that entrepreneurial spirit, take risks and surround yourself with like minded people. Obviously we all have bills to pay and there's no way you'll be able to toss away that 9 to 5 right away but save your money and be on the lookout for opportunities.

I'm waiting for a job offer from a good friend, he wants me to run the social media division of his company, something I have literally no experience of doing. It's a young company and it's definitely a long term project but I feel like it could yield big dividends and allow for a great learning experience .

Meanwhile, some of my friends who have completed these stupid commerce & business administration degrees are struggling to find a decent gig. I'm about to be served this job on a silver platter just from having previous work experience with these guys. Go figure, that's just life for you...

On the other hand, sometimes I just want to stack a couple more G's, buy a couple of beachfront properties in the Philippines, get my little surf camp going, kick back and enjoy that asian p*ssy every remaining day of my life

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

my life right now got a not bad paying job + family + school but feel more drained and out then anything

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

I'm in that matrix, you know...... that go to work and be miserable, just to come home & do it all over again routine. I can see why my moms used to come home exhausted and unhappy. i said to myself ill never become that, but slowly I'am.


I'm 25 going on 26 and i feel like 25-35 is the last window to really achieve ur dreams...of course over 35 u can reach ur goals BUT it gets harder as u get older


I been going crazy lately, losing touch of reality....I want to be successful so bad and grind all day....i hate my job with a passion but i have bills to pay....i can see why criminals risk everything chasing success...its like, whats the point of living just to barely survive

shyt bruh Im 23 and the gig be having me feel like The only thing that keeps me pushing with pride is hope and knowing what I want to do, the steps needed to get there, andthat I am on my way to doing it.

The gig Im at now hella bootsy but a nikka gotta eat.

Just take some time to really figure out what the next move for you is and make it happen.

fukk a dreams tho my nikka. Its real outchea.


"If it was easy, everybody would be doing it."

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

I'm in the same boat breh!

But I ain't no bytch!

I'm stacking bread working overtime and establishing discipline.

Wrote goals down on a poster and put it above my bed so every morning when I'm acting lazy or slipping I'm reminded what time it is

 

[↓R↑LYB]

@DrX thank you for making this thread breh. I've been feeling kinda down lately but this thread was kind of a wake up call. My job is cool and my relationship with my gf is straight, but I still feel like something is lacking in my life. Honestly this shyt came up because the house I wanted to buy went under contract with someone else and I've felt like a fukk nikka ever since

I'm bout to get back on my grind. I'm gonna chill out on the liquor, and just put 100% of my energy into my dreams. I'm 31 and fighting off the flabby and sickness (in more ways than one ) so I gotta do something about it.

What's your plan though breh? You going back to school? Gonna start a company? Try to move to a different carer path?