i think they do. but its not that men get hardened by life its that they get disenchanted by it. they lose that magic or that spark that kids have and to some extent women always have. that in a way has me not really mad at women for divorcing later on. i couldnt imagine whats its like to have to live with some of these bitter ass dudes. take any bitter ass grown man you know and just imagine having to live with dude. some of these posters already seem miserable af when they post and everybody here is young af imagine having to live with them when they get older and are even more miserable