Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
I can agree to this too, but if you can find a woman that's equally yoked which a lot of them are/can be then you can have a decent relationship too.
That's why I indicated it depends on the woman.
Is it better to find a woman as you build or establish yourself then find someone?
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That's why I indicated it depends on the woman.
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Oh most definitely. I think the reason dating is so trash now is that people don't actually take time to get to know each other anymore. They're too focused on the finish line and trying to get the most outta the other person while giving the least amount of effort. That way if the relationship doesn't work they feel like they won some type of moral/ego victory
Depends on you and/or the woman. Some women will help you get started....but some women will sidetrack you at the same time. You have to know what you want, you also have to have the strength to stay focussed. Having a kid while you're building can severely drail you. If you're on point, you can be with a woman and avoid that. If you're not, you can be with a woman and not avoid that and fukk up your path.
So it's a hard question to answer. The only thing I'll say is if you do find a good woman, keep her...and I don't mean string her along..I mean plan a future with her. Many great men have been taken down by picking the wrong woman...on the flip side, many great men owe their prosperity to getting with a hell of a woman.
So it's a hard question to answer. The only thing I'll say is if you do find a good woman, keep her...and I don't mean string her along..I mean plan a future with her. Many great men have been taken down by picking the wrong woman...on the flip side, many great men owe their prosperity to getting with a hell of a woman.
MicIsGod
They like what that mean
Haven’t had seen the financial side of it in life yet, but getting in great shape you see something similar. Like damn, y’all are just a superficial as us..maybe even more because no one thinks yall are like this. Women got it good man
That's why I tell brehs to get in shape and maintain it. Women are just as surface level as brehs. When I got in better shape and filled out the clothes start fitting better and they noticed. Brehs ain't no better feeling than women lusting after ya. They coming with a whole different type of energy trying to be in your presence lolHaven’t had seen the financial side of it in life yet, but getting in great shape you see something similar. Like damn, y’all are just a superficial as us..maybe even more because no one thinks yall are like this. Women got it good man
MicIsGod
They like what that mean
You feel me. I was lowkey intimidated at how submissive women get when they look at you as physically superior. Like damn, I’ve only been getting 50% max, this bytch would walk to Florida for some juice if I asked
Brandsdale
Big Yella
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We in 2024 now dawg. Be fukkin foreal lol
We in 2024 now dawg. Be fukkin foreal lol
I think it goes untalked about because it gets learned by experience by a certain age. So it becomes a "no use crying over spilled milk... especially when I just bought the best milk" point.
Exactly. These women aren't trying to build any type of foundation. They want the whole mansion built and want to come in and dictate the color of the interior. Calling themselves 50/50 partner at that. Just not a good deal for most men. Things go left, they divorce you and now you're back to building from scratch
