Is it better to find a woman as you build or establish yourself then find someone?

[#BOTHSIDES]

Went from 400 a week to 100k+ (shoutout @Double Burger With Cheese )a year in a couple years and fam it’s jarring the difference in how girls treat you.

When you’re broke they look out for you, encourage you , do the little things. Y’all could build

When you got a little bread , they see the high rise , the foreign cars, they don’t even need to know your salary they know your credit is decent. You can’t be down around them because they say “you got this far you’ll be ok” They expect princess treatment

That sweet girl that makes 40-50 k is going to turn into the super bytch that makes 6 figures.

There are wifey types out there but the girl prolly speaks another language

what the coli think? Is it easier to find genuine women when you down bad or nah? @Stuntone

 

[The ADD]

It’s going to happen when it happens

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Establish yourself, find a woman that's establish and build together, simple as that but yeah, I learned that a lot of six figure woman aren't really worth the headache either. There is a woman out there making 50K that will give you peace of mind..I just can't trust women that make less than me to not fuk me over in a divorce

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Depends on the man. Your taste in women might change, the better you do in life and the more you experience different places and things.

If you make a whole lot of money, I’d say you should keep it low key. Especially when trying to find a wife.

The women who deserve the most, are the ones who expect the least material items.

 

[Diondon]

As long as she gets on your program
There's advantages to each. Depends on what the person is looking for

 

[tuckgod]

Its better to experience both so that you can make an informed decision.

 

[Huda2daf]

This is spot on. Hoes expect the most and be planning they whole life after we go on the first date.

 

[Vandelay]

Depends on the woman.

 

[Stuntone]

what the coli think? Is it easier to find genuine women when you down bad or nah? @Stuntone

Definitely better to find one while you're on the rise.

Most long term marriage couple met early and struggled together. Build each other up over the years. Too many women at the finish line waiting on well estatblished men. Problem is, most men don't see real money until 35+, and that's his prime and women come so easy now. Very hard to settle down then. And on top of that I feel a lot of men resent women for all the dating issue we struggle with in our 20s. Women dating ballers and thugs, we remember that.

 

[rabbid]

what a lot of men don't talk about is the cynicism that comes from seeing the disparity in how women treat you based on very superficial things. you can be the same dude from 5 years ago except you're papered up and the same girl treat you totally different and act like you're too stupid to notice. that shyt will do something to your soul.

imo its better to find a girl while you're in the mud... or end up on your coming to America where u gotta hide things from a bish. sad but true.

 

[Scaaar]

This is spot on. Hoes expect the most and be planning they whole life after we go on the first date.

That's because most of them are self centered. They have their whole life planned out you're just a face filling in the empty suit to fulfill the aesthetic of everything

 

[Scaaar]

Definitely better to find one while you're on the rise.

Most long term marriage couple met early and struggled together. Build each other up over the years. Too many women at the finish line waiting on well estatblished men. Problem is, most men don't see real money until 35+, and that's his prime and women come so easy now. Very hard to settle down then. And on top of that I feel a lot of men resent women for all the dating issue we struggle with in our 20s. Women dating ballers and thugs, we remember that.

Definitely spot on. A lot of brehs finally hit their financial stride in their 30s and the amount of options just explode there. Its hard for a breh to settle down with a woman especially one that didn't help him get to that financial level when they're women that are just throwing themselves at him little to no effort lol

 

[skyrunner1]

Think its better to lock one in early if you want long term. Its crazy how paper can improve your "game" if you investing in yourself but also be a detriment because women try to see you as a lick and switch up..

 

[Buddy]

I'm personally tryna build before I get into anything serious but if a girl was willing with what I got now, I don't see why not.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I personally have to have something going for me even if at the infancy I can’t be broke with a terrible job trying to build

A decent job at the very least