No! Because you guys are still "soft". If you're fighting all the time, you're soft.
Honestly, I have never really been in fight since I was maybe 14...On both occasion, I didn't even fight, I just overpowered the dudes, and made realize that I could abuse them if I wanted to...The entire school witnessed it, and I was never ever f+cked with again...
(1) If you are quiet but look people in the eye, and you speak clearly and distinctly, and you show competence...MOST people would NOT even dare f+ck with you...
The proof is nature...When a leopard corners a baboon, what does the baboon do, it starts screaming, acting aggressive and all crazy, but in reality, it knows it is in big trouble, and all that rararara is just a call for help...
The leopard on the other hand stays cool and silent, and prepares to do damage...
All the real killer mammalian beasts don't make a lot of noise when it's repping time...
(2) You should carry yourself in a way that exudes confidence...If you are not a loud mouth, but still exhibit body language that says "go ahead, try me," the average person is not going to mess with you...
If they do, they are crazy, and you should walk away, unless you have a clear advantage and strategy to discipline them...
People fear what they don't understand, and they can't understand what they don't know...So, only give people information on a need to know basis...
And you most probably wont be pulled into situations where you have to resort to physical violence...
On the other hand, I understand some people just love fighting...I don't think it makes them tough, it's just what they do...
A lot of MMA figheters and Boxers be soft and moist in the middle, they may beat you in a physical fight, but when you put them under mental pressure, they fold like envelopes, and get mailed to psychiatric facilities or turn to drugs...