Dating should be organic with the intentions of a relationship.. it should never be transactional. I think that’s what a lot of people are missing when they complain like this.
She's trying to position herself so that she's not talking to "dusties" I'm not mad at that. You want what you want.
But she doesn't understand what it takes to appeal to mid-high 6 figure white men in DC as a black woman.
"Just sit and be pretty" at a "high end hotel" - is not it. That actually screams prostitute tbh.
She's better off joining some Navy Yard Runners Collective...