Intelligent 15 year old black girl that jumped from 9th to 12th grade, is now 17 & pregnant

Gloxina

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Intelligence comes in many forms. She was intelligent enough to skip ahead in school, but not intelligent enough to forsee the consequences of having sex as a teenager. The lack of emotional control of young people, means parents need to be extra-vigilent and also informative on the consequences of actions. So keep your children active in interesting wholesome activities, while also maintaining a whatch on whom they surround themselves with as friends.

Even doing the above, some will slip through the cracks. Yet, putting in that effort as a parent drastically reduces the chances of your children ending up being teenage parents. So it should be all about reducing the possibility of a mishap, not allowing that possibility to rise with parental inattention or, even worse, neglect.
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Exactly. That’s what I try to get across here. Young ppl will make decisions based on emotions and hormones if their parents aren’t having real conversations about sex and life.
It’s critical.

Book smarts don't equal emotional intelligence. Hormones don’t stop because you’re smarter than the average kid.

If you have a daughter you have to know that at least one guy has his eyes on her. That’s real.
 

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teenagers can be stupid :yeshrug:

man im glad im not a woman. my dumb ass would be raising some mean ass little kids right now. she's not that old tho, she can still finish higher education and make something of herself. i cant even stand being around crying babies. idk how people do it
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
Now juxtaposition that with TK Kirkland thread :russ:
You got bytch ass nikkas on the first page talking about she’ll be alright with a good support system
But then say the black community is lost because nikkas don’t want to take care of another nikkas kid:dead:
This is the disingenuous, cognitive dissonance that runs rampant on this forum
How are black families supposed to strengthen with this logic
I don’t give a shyt if the nikka she got pregnant by is still in the picture
A fukkING 16 year old should never be pregnant
This shyt wasn’t cool when I was 16 and it ain’t cool when I’m a father of a 19 year old girl
Parents are failing and not teaching kids shyt
No way is a 16-25 year old capable of understanding what it takes to raise a child
Village be damned
You nikkas always talk about marriage being a linchpin in the success of building up the black community
But :manny: a 16 year old getting pregnant
This the same forum that saw nothing wrong with a funky bytch letting her little girl wax grown women
So of course you lame nikkas wouldn’t find nothing wrong with this
Please don’t ever have children
You will be pissing in the pool with the failures you nikkas are destined to raise :Kd:
 

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The valedictorian at my school was dating a hood ass nikka that was 22 (failed 4 years) so it doesn't surprise me. She didn't get pregnant until years after and after she got married tho, and not with the same guy. Chick was a bad Ethiopian caramel skin pretty face with a fat ass
 
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