Instagram might've jus ether'd my marriage...#DFC .Vol 12

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then it's a wrap homie... she's feeling like it wasn't meant to be, and after her actions it's looking like she's right. She ruined it, you shouldn't take her back. She's using the miscarriage as an out.... yalll don't have kids... you're free

Do not contact her anymore, do not check up on her.... Go cold turkey and do your thing... right now you're losing and she's winning. She's out there hoing Dog... I'm sorry.
brudda I'm very sorry for your situation.. the best thing to do is really cut her off with no contact. Don't even check up on her anymore... the next time you see her is when she's coming to get her things from your place.... be courteous but don' t be all on her shyt. You need to show that you're bigger than her and her bullshyt actions and that it's nothing to a boss... she needs to hear about your crazy sexual escapades with bad bytches.

@a murda Sorry bout your situation here bruh but this man is 100% on point, best posts in this entire thread. After seeing that pic, the game changed. You gotta cut it off, matter of fact wait and see how long it takes her to hit you up. That'll really tell you where shyts at. And like its been said before, y'all got no children together so its a fairly clean break. You obviously weren't satisfied so why keep beatin the same dead fish.

Never been married but thats how I feel
 

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Thanks for all of your contributions my nikka :leocheers:

right.

I was just thinking this has been the GOAT coli series.

this shyt can't end

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The number one rule when a woman tells you she needs space or a break or whetever euphemism she uses for getting away from you is to give her the :birdman: and say ok with no question asked. Then you disappear until she comes crawling back begging for forgiveness. She is taking you for granted and thinks you will stay around and wait until she decides whether or not she still likes you. If you stop communicating and she doesn't know what you're up to she will start worrying that you are goong to be the one who is doing the :camby:. Chasing after her on the other hand won't do you any good since thst let's her know that she owns you and can do whstever the fukk she wants and you'd still take her back.
 

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My wife and already been separated for about 2months....we been talking off and on the past few weeks...she been staying at her moms until i checked my news feed on IG only to find out she been in miami the past week wit her bff wit no ring on her finger....:wow:

These might be the concluding chapters of the dead fish chronicles brehs...:wow:

#getmarriedbrehs :to:
What are the dead fish chronicles?






If you cheated on her, I'm glad she left. That's what you get for cheating.:pacspit::birdman:
 

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The number one rule when a woman tells you she needs space or a break or whetever euphemism she uses for getting away from you is to give her the :birdman: and say ok with no question asked. Then you disappear until she comes crawling back begging for forgiveness. She is taking you for granted and thinks you will stay around and wait until she decides whether or not she still likes you. If you stop communicating and she doesn't know what you're up to she will start worrying that you are goong to be the one who is doing the :camby:. Chasing after her on the other hand won't do you any good since thst let's her know that she owns you and can do whstever the fukk she wants and you'd still take her back.
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brudda I'm very sorry for your situation.. the best thing to do is really cut her off with no contact. Don't even check up on her anymore... the next time you see her is when she's coming to get her things from your place.... be courteous but don' t be all on her shyt. You need to show that you're bigger than her and her bullshyt actions and that it's nothing to a boss... she needs to hear about your crazy sexual escapades with bad bytches.

This. I believe in marriage and fighting with everything you have to make a marriage work. However, when your spouse wants out, then there's nothing to fight for.

At this point, you need to focus on the next phase of your life. Don't fall into the trap of trying to "win her back" via texting, calling and begging. You can't win someome...they have to want you too.

She's the one who went on a "girls weekend" to MIA without even telling you, so that should let you know something. Even if she didn't do anything, she disrespected you by even taking that trip to that location as everyone knows people go there to party and "have a good time." And you had to find out via IG...and everybody still knows her as your wife, playa. How does that look?

If you want to go the a##hole route, you might need to let a b#tch meet a b#tch. You might need to call up that chick you were smashing and have her around right now. Let rumors start to swirl about you "moving on" and having other women "already." Let her see you on IG and FB taking pics with different women. And if she's been VERY OUT OF POCKET, then you might need to let a chick be at the crib when she picks her stuff up...only in cases of extreme disrespect.

Or if you just want to be professional and extremely mature about it, just have the divorce papers sitting on the kitchen table with a note when she comes to pick up her stuff while you're not there. No fighting, just plain ether.

Peace
 

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My wife and already been separated for about 2months....we been talking off and on the past few weeks...she been staying at her moms until i checked my news feed on IG only to find out she been in miami the past week wit her bff wit no ring on her finger....:wow:

These might be the concluding chapters of the dead fish chronicles brehs...:wow:

#getmarriedbrehs :to:


She didn't tell you she was goin to Miami. That's a sign that she dont give a damn about yalls relationships & no longer respects you and met up with her gurls to be sluts for the weekend. Cut that hoe off and find a better baby.
 
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:whoa: so if a girl takes a break and doesn't tell you that she's going out and having fun..that's a sign of disrespect?

:wtf:

whether married or in a long term relationship .. if a girl says "we need a break" .. tell that hoe :camby: .. she obviously wants to get dikk downed .. why you care for what she's upto .. keep yourself busy and keep it moving..
 
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