Get a hold of yourself, nikkas. I dont know what y'all working with in terms of personal qualities, but y'all cant expect to attract a decent women with such self-loathing, crude, and paranoid outlooks on life, yourself, and the opposite sex. No matter who you are, you are guaranteeing yourself a life of misery with such whiny, piss poor attitudes.You cant complain about women being 'attention seekers', and 'insecure', when this thread is one huge attention seeking, big bag of neurosis and collective nervous breakdowns.
Every generation and epoch had inventions and advances that changed life as they know it...from the trains, telephones, automobiles, t.v's, social liberation, internet, smart phones, social media, etc. The cats that curled up like fried shrimp over it probably didnt get as much out of life as they cats who embraced the changes, and figured out how it could work for them.
Maybe some of y'all need to lower your expectations and come to grips with what you can reasonably attract, maybe some of yall need to get out the house more, change sht up, and log off for a while to reboot your perspectives, maybe some of yall need some personal growth in many areas....regardless, if you live in a decent sized city, there are hundreds, potentially thousands of compatible girls within a accessible radius. Think positively, and stop fukkin crying yo. Jeez.