Instagram changed...everything

[ignorethis]

Atleast you no longer have to worry about this happening lmao, you'll see it on Instagram beforehand.

 

[Just like bruddas]

A cheater is gonna cheat If you wife up an unfaithful woman it won't matter if you throw her cellphone, tablet, laptop and library card in the bushes. She'll cheat on you if she feels the desire to do so.

What I'm talking about is stop worrying about how many likes a woman is getting online and worry about how often you're interacting with her in a meaningful way. If the average woman is being gassed up as much as y'all say she is, then she most likely ignores the vast majority, if not all, of that gassing. A guy actually talking to her in person will have much more of an effect than a "Like" or parched comment left under a picture. Just like before social media a dude coming with a fresh approach would have more of an effect than a dude with a corny pickup line. Imagine a cat who had the ill pen game and wrote love letters that'd have Cyrano looking unromantic and then all of a sudden you got dudes out chea sending emails and text messagesfukking up the paper and ink strategy for nikkas everywhere. The game never changes it just evolves to the times.

even I had to take notes from this

 

[Poitier]

A cheater is gonna cheat If you wife up an unfaithful woman it won't matter if you throw her cellphone, tablet, laptop and library card in the bushes. She'll cheat on you if she feels the desire to do so.

What I'm talking about is stop worrying about how many likes a woman is getting online and worry about how often you're interacting with her in a meaningful way. If the average woman is being gassed up as much as y'all say she is, then she most likely ignores the vast majority, if not all, of that gassing. A guy actually talking to her in person will have much more of an effect than a "Like" or parched comment left under a picture. Just like before social media a dude coming with a fresh approach would have more of an effect than a dude with a corny pickup line. Imagine a cat who had the ill pen game and wrote love letters that'd have Cyrano looking unromantic and then all of a sudden you got dudes out chea sending emails and text messagesfukking up the paper and ink strategy for nikkas everywhere. The game never changes it just evolves to the times.

I'm not disagreeing, just merely expressing why people feel the way they do. I also think you're talking from the perspective of getting a girl while I'm talking about the obstacles in a relationship. There use to be a point in time when people were stuck together and it wasn't as easy to be unfaithful. I think we're the last generation of people that has any understanding of how it used to be for our parents and grandparents and some feel it's unfair, thus you get this sort of male dread about how accessible it is and the power shift that women have gotten with social media. At the end of the day, you just have to have your priorities right and vet these women and most will be okay.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Atleast you no longer have to worry about this happening lmao, you'll see it on Instagram beforehand.

Notice how dudes got more simpish when cam'ron stopped making real music like this

 

[kevm3]

I believe instagram has actually made things easier. The instagram woman with 30,000 followers are just a simple marker of a woman to avoid. All instagram is just another avenue for them to manifest their attention whoring ways. If it wasn't instagram, it'd be her in the club with a short dress on, no underwear on, dancing on stage.

Obarth hit the nail on the head. A ho is going to ho up. If it wasn't internationally with the internet, it would be locally at the bars, clubs and house parties.

 

[Thoughts]

or maybe its because this nikka is still sleeping in bunk beds with his brother.

Im offended by your statement sir, can u list these vulnerabilities?

I can't right now ... I'm with Jennifer Sanchez




Nah ...on the real, I smashed so many chicks while their boyfriend is in line at GameStop waiting for NBA2K or Silent Ghost Duty or whatever, Instagraming himself camping in line etc...or at battle rap tournies, or Comic Cons etc...

If that's your thing that's cool, but shorty want to see the world, she don't care that Kakarot's power level is 9000....or see the new X-Men movie, or wear matching Nintendo t-shirts.

That's your HOBBY, it shouldn't define who you are and these dudes can't make that distinction, my homeboy's brother and his friends were them pretentious RPG cats that spend a whole weekend in the house rolling RPG dice etc...their whole 20's actually. I remember seeing dudes wanting to punch them in the face for saying some slick shyt that was geek related while out with their girls. Women ain't got time for that.

Same with those militant brothers always trying to preach...be at the movies talking about "I don't eat the white man's popcorn"

You gotta have balance, outdoors, hiking, camping, or dancing, running, biking...or traveling something that can challenge her to show she has range and dimension....she'll be on Instagram straight flexing "me and my boo camping for the weekend", etc...

Take a lesson from Power Simp he treated her like a priority instead of an option because his mind isn't receptive to the game and her feelings.
You gotta let them fly but at the same time show her no matter how far and high she soars ...you're a place worth nesting at (stable).

Video game heads ain't stable ...I know dudes in their late 30's are damaged goods because of them damn video games and Yu'gio cards...


Don't get me wrong, honey wouldn't mind serving you and homies wings and beer during a Walking Dead session or even a weekend Matrix marathon with the homies....but that shyt can't be your life. Them nerds can't separate that....$700 on Sony Playstations posting on Instagram and she's on her Instagram talking about she struggling to make tuition...you're a vulnerability, trap stars willing to cash her out will take shots at you and her all day..

 

[Wild self]

I'm not disagreeing, just merely expressing why people feel the way they do. I also think you're talking from the perspective of getting a girl while I'm talking about the obstacles in a relationship. There use to be a point in time when people were stuck together and it wasn't as easy to be unfaithful. I think we're the last generation of people that has any understanding of how it used to be for our parents and grandparents and some feel it's unfair, thus you get this sort of male dread about how accessible it is and the power shift that women have gotten with social media. At the end of the day, you just have to have your priorities right and vet these women and most will be okay.

We the last generation that knew what life was before the internet. When women in this society have more confidence than a man, it creates all kinds of problems.

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

OH and I'll be real. I went thru a phase when I hit college trying to date these type of women. It was a train wreck I'm not comfortable dancing outside of slow and the occasional two-step ..So I'd be the club with women and I could fake it, but I'd have nothing to say of importance in loud places, fights breaking out, drinks flowing type deal. I don't do well with "small talk"..Something I'm still struggling with. So that environment was rough for me. I didn't do well in online presence.

My facebook wasn't "cool". It didn't pop off the screen. I didn't know enough club promoters even though I had a bunch of club pics. I had a lot of friends but just clubbing friends. I tried to dress the part buying trendy club clothing. V-necks, with a vest over top, jeans and loafers I did alright but by 20 years old, I felt rather stupid. I wasn't getting rich off doing this every weekend. I wasn't getting smarter and socially my life wasn't positive and didn't reflect who I was really was. So I started investing in what I really like. Going to art shows, jazz clubs etc can be intimidating in your 20's and around an older more sophisticated crowd but the people are welcoming and that feeling of having to be the best looking dude, richest or have the prettiest girl on your arm is just not there. You meeting school teachers, marketing directors, shytt just last weekend, I was exchanging cards with the owner of an environmental drilling company out here in Seattle. Potential job or business opportunity. All this happened at a jazz club, live music. Just saying find yourself. A lot of you guys seem to think you are mainstream/urban cool when you really aren't. I learned early on.

 

[Thoughts]

For you. I hadn't worn J's since I was maybe 12 years old. I don't even feel comfortable wearing tennis shoes that cost the same amount as Clark's desert boots or Johnston and Murphy oxfords. Again can I do with Jordan's? I can rock clean darkwashed jeans, desert boots, polo/collared shirt from casual to dinner. Oxfords for business meetings, work, lounge, art exhibit etc.

The places I like to go and Jordans don't mix breh for me. Do you

I got people in their 30's looking like a Dipset convention in 2003 in 2013 ....they show up to go chill in the city and I'm like.

 

[Wild self]

I can't right now ... I'm with Jennifer Sanchez




Nah ...on the real, I smashed so many chicks while their boyfriend is in line at GameStop waiting for NBA2K or Silent Ghost Duty or whatever, Instagraming himself camping in line etc...or at battle rap tournies, or Comic Cons etc...

If that's your thing that's cool, but shorty want to see the world, she don't care that Kakarot's power level is 9000....or see the new X-Men movie, or wear matching Nintendo t-shirts.

That's your HOBBY, it shouldn't define who you are and these dudes can't make that distinction, my homeboy's brother and his friends were them pretentious RPG cats that spend a whole weekend in the house rolling RPG dice etc...their whole 20's actually. I remember seeing dudes wanting to punch them in the face for saying some slick that was geek related while out with their girls. Women ain't got time for that.

Same with those militant brothers always trying to preach...be at the movies talking about "I don't eat the white man's popcorn"

You gotta have balance, outdoors, hiking, camping, or dancing, running, biking...or traveling something that can challenge her to show she has range and dimension....she'll be on Instagram straight flexing "me and my boo camping for the weekend", etc...

Take a lesson from Power Simp he treated her like a priority instead of an option because his mind isn't receptive to the game and her feelings.
You gotta let them fly but at the same time show her no matter how far and high she soars ...you're a place worth nesting at (stable).

Video game heads ain't stable ...I know dudes in their late 30's are damaged goods because of them damn videos games and Yu'gio cards...


Don't get me wrong, honey wouldn't mind surving you and homies wings and beer during a Walking Dead session or even a weekend Matrix marathon with the homies....but that shyt can't be your life. Them nerds can't separate that....$700 on Sony Playstations posting on Instagram and she's on her Instagram talking about she struggling to make tuition...you're a vulnerability, trap stars willing to cash her out will take shots at you and her all day..

You want to get with them extroverted women. They have a short shelf life and they are mad fickle. Sure, it is important for every person to go outside and have social interaction, but to impress these chicks is mentally draining. Best thing is to meet up with decent looking chicks that are low key and does not follow the crowd.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Get a hold of yourself, nikkas. I dont know what y'all working with in terms of personal qualities, but y'all cant expect to attract a decent women with such self-loathing, crude, and paranoid outlooks on life, yourself, and the opposite sex. No matter who you are, you are guaranteeing yourself a life of misery with such whiny, piss poor attitudes.You cant complain about women being 'attention seekers', and 'insecure', when this thread is one huge attention seeking, big bag of neurosis and collective nervous breakdowns.

Every generation and epoch had inventions and advances that changed life as they know it...from the trains, telephones, automobiles, t.v's, social liberation, internet, smart phones, social media, etc. The cats that curled up like fried shrimp over it probably didnt get as much out of life as they cats who embraced the changes, and figured out how it could work for them.

Maybe some of y'all need to lower your expectations and come to grips with what you can reasonably attract, maybe some of yall need to get out the house more, change sht up, and log off for a while to reboot your perspectives, maybe some of yall need some personal growth in many areas....regardless, if you live in a decent sized city, there are hundreds, potentially thousands of compatible girls within a accessible radius. Think positively, and stop fukkin crying yo. Jeez.

 

[O.Red]

if you still rockin Southpole you deserve to be bytchless.

 

[Houston911]

They tell YOU that Drake and then when you finish rubbing her feet and kissing her goodbye she call up OG Beat It UP ...you pay her phone bill.
Women want a man who is HIMSELF...no matter what that is.

The anime, comic book cats have too many vulnerabilities to be considered a potential mate ...sure she'll have fun and hit you up from time to time, you may even beat when she's in a drought. But you're not on speed dial.

somebody put that weirdo in a mental institution before he kills somebody

 

[Thoughts]

You want to get with them extroverted women. They have a short shelf life and they are mad fickle. Sure, it is important for every person to go outside and have social interaction, but to impress these chicks is mentally draining. Best thing is to meet up with decent looking chicks that are low key and does not follow the crowd.

That's what I'm saying ...3-5 pages ago, dudes wasn't hearing me. And you don't need Twitter or Instagram to get them. The fact that you can teach her something outside Social Networking you already won and have her intrigued because you're different.

But if a guy comes along with 30K followers and you have like 300 ...she's going where the money at.

There's companies like Klout who make money buy selling you your own social networking analytics, this is how these Instgram models make money.
Companies check their Klout score and give them free stuff for having 10K+ simps on her follow feed. She's literally selling ass. Even if you're a nice person, you can't mess up her money, so if you not poppin' you making her look bad.

Why not, be a guest start on HER Instagram and your leverage comes from you BOOSTING her appeal by being a "mystery man".

Ladies love the low key dude....

 

[Thoughts]

somebody put that weirdo in a mental institution before he kills somebody

Why he look like Just Blaze though ?!?!?!