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Incel finally snaps after being in friend zone too long
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The Amerikkkan Idol
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There’s a lot to read between the lines here. First off the real reason he reacted like that was
because now that she was in a relationship, he was hurt over being abandoned. If you note at the beginning of the tirade he wasn’t yelling about her actually being with another man. He was most concerned that her new man wouldn’t allow her to still hang out and do things with him.
This isn’t just a friendzone gone wrong situation. This is a “my ONLY friend”zone gone wrong situation. Her not fukking him is the least of his worries.
I’d bet a million dollars that he doesn’t have any other friends. She is probably the person he spends the most time with. He’s almost treating this like he’s losing his Day 1 homie to some evil
chick he’s marrying.
The problem with a lot of dudes in these situations is they operate under false pretenses and invest their time and energy into people that are obviously not into them.
But why they do this is the most important part of the equation. It’s oftentimes because they don’t have anything else goin for themselves and no other friends. So these chicks in the friendzone aren’t just some p*ssy they want to fukk. These chicks become their partners for all intents and purposes in spite of there not being any consent or acknowledgement from the female. You can’t place the bulk of your socialization on somebody and just assume a relationship is there without verbal discussion and consent. And if you do, you have no right to be angry at someone not honoring such an unspoken situation.
My first piece of advice to anybody who might be looking for companionship from the opposite sex is to first expand your social circle, activity level, and amount of human interaction. This stuff creates more opportunities to meet people and since women are people, you meet more women too. But instead of doing it just to meet women, do it for yourself and what you are interested in. When your authentically enjoying yourself in an expanded circle of like minded individuals, people will gravitate to you naturally, thus increasing your chances to meet women.
Becoming comfortable doing this would eliminate 90% of incel shyt.
Cliff notes:
-He overreacted because she’s probably his only real homie.
-But you can’t force a relationship with somebody as their friend without verbal consent.
-Instead of being frustrated with the girl, he needs to look inside himself and figure out why he is so co-dependent on this one person.
-To avoid this type of barnacle co-dependency, he should be more social.
-Doing so would help him meet more people, thereby increasing his chances of meeting more women as well.
because now that she was in a relationship, he was hurt over being abandoned. If you note at the beginning of the tirade he wasn’t yelling about her actually being with another man. He was most concerned that her new man wouldn’t allow her to still hang out and do things with him.
This isn’t just a friendzone gone wrong situation. This is a “my ONLY friend”zone gone wrong situation. Her not fukking him is the least of his worries.
I’d bet a million dollars that he doesn’t have any other friends. She is probably the person he spends the most time with. He’s almost treating this like he’s losing his Day 1 homie to some evil
chick he’s marrying.
The problem with a lot of dudes in these situations is they operate under false pretenses and invest their time and energy into people that are obviously not into them.
But why they do this is the most important part of the equation. It’s oftentimes because they don’t have anything else goin for themselves and no other friends. So these chicks in the friendzone aren’t just some p*ssy they want to fukk. These chicks become their partners for all intents and purposes in spite of there not being any consent or acknowledgement from the female. You can’t place the bulk of your socialization on somebody and just assume a relationship is there without verbal discussion and consent. And if you do, you have no right to be angry at someone not honoring such an unspoken situation.
My first piece of advice to anybody who might be looking for companionship from the opposite sex is to first expand your social circle, activity level, and amount of human interaction. This stuff creates more opportunities to meet people and since women are people, you meet more women too. But instead of doing it just to meet women, do it for yourself and what you are interested in. When your authentically enjoying yourself in an expanded circle of like minded individuals, people will gravitate to you naturally, thus increasing your chances to meet women.
Becoming comfortable doing this would eliminate 90% of incel shyt.
Cliff notes:
-He overreacted because she’s probably his only real homie.
-But you can’t force a relationship with somebody as their friend without verbal consent.
-Instead of being frustrated with the girl, he needs to look inside himself and figure out why he is so co-dependent on this one person.
-To avoid this type of barnacle co-dependency, he should be more social.
-Doing so would help him meet more people, thereby increasing his chances of meeting more women as well.
The Wall Is Undefeated!
Superstar
When will incels ever learn?
Stop putting too much time, money and resources into women that aren't your family or S/O. Simples.
Also why do they lose their shyt over mediocre women!?
Stop putting too much time, money and resources into women that aren't your family or S/O. Simples.
Also why do they lose their shyt over mediocre women!?
It's call friendship my guy.
Somehow a woman not wanting ya'll to run through her makes her a bad person.
Men need to stop pretending to be friends. Say how you feel and stop hoping for pity p*ssy.
The dude in OP knew what it was and still was crying. Da faq? Take accountability for your own thirsty and lack of spine fellas
Who hurt you?
The Wall Is Undefeated!
Superstar
Sounds like those people were in the process of getting to know you. Doesn't sound like they lied about not being interested.
And why would you expect an unconditionally and definitive yes from someone you don't really know? People have a right to not be interested after getting to know you. Somehow a lot of men seem to have an issue processing that a woman will lose interested after they get to know them. They say the women "used" them when in reality they probably just didn't like the dude after a date or 2.
This. I don't understand how someone can play victim when they are fully aware of the situation they choose to put themselves in.
The Wall Is Undefeated!
Superstar
My friendship with young women are only about 'benefits'. 
most women also know they can benefit from keeping them around. otherwise they would stop hanging with them. it's not as cut and dry as you try to make it.
I seen women lead on dudes in the friend zone and use them for things they would a man of their own. calling dudes to move their whole apartments and be the placeholder when she needs attention.
it's not just ON HIM it's on her too. dude is unstable and she's entertaining his company knowing he wants more. that's on both of them.
CreepyMcCreeperson
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I’m saying, most of the time, if two people meet, and one isn’t interested in a relationship, but the other is, one person will say they just want to be friends. When men say that, it means we are down to smash, but want no commitment. The woman translates it as us actually wanting to be friends. So they think if we continue to spend time with them, usually at someone crib, followed by sex, she thinks it will lead to us developing feelings.A fukk buddy isn't a friend
How is that even relevant to friendship or you were just looking for something to say?
On the flip side, if it’s the woman not interested, the man will still take her out, pay for stuff, hang out, then think she’ll change her mind. It’s about having clear boundaries. But a lot of people will interpret things according to their desires, not reality.
Again, that's called friendship. Friends help friends move. I have helped female friends move. Friends talk on the phone, hang out and talk about dating.
Ya'll swear everyone trying to use ya'll just because they don't want to slam ass.
If you are pretending to be friends to get pity p*ssy that's on you. Ya'll swear women owe you some shyt because you show up.
fukk buddies aren't friends. They are people who don't give a fukk about you but still want to use you for sexual gratification.
That's not even the same conversation.
You're talking about trying to change someone's mind and using the term "friendship" to cover some back door macking. Those people are liars.
Idk how that's your idea of friendship. And as you say, if men wanna be liars about their intentions that's on them.
So maybe you're statement should be "Men aren't capable of friendship with women."
