IMO more black men would be in happy relationships if they embrace avg looking black woman

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Agreed. This should be a thread on its own. I think we dont accept that the world is hierarchy based, unless we are at the very top. Go figure.

I know one guy that believes himself to be successful (he actually stated this). He works at a factory doing manual labour making 11$/hr at 28 years old, yet to him, he deserves the baddest chick out there. Makes no sense. Whole lotta delusions in us.


Anywho to answer the thread, most average black men are with average black women. Yet both parties tend to think they are more deserving.

Yeah, I drive to North FLorida sometimes and when you drive that way you see why Trump won lol, tons of poor cacs but no crime and a good amount of them are married.

Women are ugly but they got something and ain't messing with yours. We need to practice class-ism so we can get in stages and do things accordingly.

chicks with multiple baby daddies shouldn't compete with the sister who did everything right and saved her till marriage.

Broke chicks can't bush broke dudes and think p*ssy is gonna make up for a $100.000 salary difference between him/her

The real issue is if I can get it while poor, I gotta fight to come up, I come up then I don't want no one poor, then that poor chick is fukked up, I can easily say "I got money, no kids either" then the broke chick and baby momma outta gas.

I'll gladly jump in on a classism thread anytime, I always thought that was the issue with black folks, all the time I was poor in the past I swore up and down with Jose still got 3 females and I'm going home with a dry dikk smh.
 

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Most dimes aren't in relationships for various reasons.

On the flipside, most average and educated women are. So your argument is invalid.

I will like to add that alot of those average women have the mentality of dimes and don't mind rejecting their equals in pursuit of ballers/thugs. I've seen butt ugly women and strippers play games with regular dudes.

The game is straight up fukked. Just got to get in where you fit in.
 

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Most dimes aren't in relationships for various reasons.

On the flipside, most average and educated women are. So your argument is invalid.

I will like to add that alot of those average women have the mentality of dimes and don't mind rejecting their equals in pursuit of ballers/thugs. I've seen butt ugly women and strippers play games with regular dudes.

The game is straight up fukked. Just got to get in where you fit in.

Sickle Cell Beta Thalessmia and a Speech Impediment.... my point is Classism would greatly help me...

But I gotta fight more to be light you or other baller dudes (don't know your situation)

That's really my point, everyone is trying to get to the top.

I'm not against self improvement but a broke nikka should be able to marry a broke chick and have broke kids.
 

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Most average women that are legit interested in men on their level, do just fine with men. The ones that are sitting home and lonely are the ones looking for a hubby on par with the dudes that was running through them in college, and haven't realized it don't work like that.

Of course we should seek out partners on our level, but if a man has accomplished something, I don't see a problem with him wanting the spoils that could come with it. I make six figures and work out regularly. What I look like with an average braud? I don't expect a dime, but I require my lady to be in the 7-8 range, just off the strength of where I'm at in my life. Anything less wouldn't be right.
 

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On the other, What's a "dime","average", or levels even? The conversation is centered around these 3 unquantifiable concepts. Y'all be saying pick someone on your level. But you can't just look at someone and be like that person's on my level. You just put your bid in.:yeshrug:
 

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