From what I understand from what I've learned about women...
On the totem pole of overall attractiveness there is
HandsomeGang - that knows how to avoid being too loud about how good they think they look but still maintain confidence.
Right below are
HandsomeGang - that is kind of reserved and a bit shy.
Then,
AverageGang - where 80% of men reside and if he has the ability to move right, socially, he can garner attentio
AND THEN
HandsomeLame - who might be attractive but are so loud and obnoxious with it that they come off like a hyperactive chick who just came back with a cosmetic fat ass from DR acting like it is natural.
nikkas making threads declaring how attractive they are too other people is the wave?
FOH