I blame them, mine left me until i was 9 then gave no shyts about me until i went to college then after the 1st semester, coped the blew they didn't have it to send me to school anymore, tried to put the blame on me saying you work part time where is your money on a 20,000 grand a year education while i made at most 100 per week at the time, stopped going to that school to go to community college while i had no job, then having to walk there because my dad gave me 10 dollars a week to do that, mind you i lived in Kew Gardens and the college was in Bayside, that is a long walk friends, then having the tuition check bounce and my dad telling me i spent it, i say how can i cash a check made out to the college? Say yeah i do blame them, matter of fact fukk them.