1. You meet a girl at an event and get the digits. You get to talking and realize that she's digging you more than you even thought.
2. One day she says she wishes you were with her somewhere (a house party for instance) and you mention something about your friend(s) basically wondering if she'd have a girl(s) for your team to get with too.
3. She says yes and eventually you see some of the friends shes working with as she texts you a picture.
4. You become interested in a friend of hers based off the picture
Here's the dilemma: If she was to invite you to chill with her and her posse in the future or vice versa... do you cross that line and try to get at one of the friends instead of her hoping one of your nikkas catch her. Or are you locked in with the girl that you initially met? Better yet...if the spot you go to has even MORE girls that spark your interest (if its a BBQ or party for example) do you desert them girls and try to do your ting?
I mean I dont consider myself locked down obviously...I aint no chump and know that I can navigate through the situation without much difficulty. But if the girls really feeling you...whats stopping her from messing with your game and spreading rumours or sumn. Plus theres risk involved that you may get none of em . THen again, she may consider it a chase especially if other girls at the gathering seem to be feeling you.
How do yall approach these situations?
2. One day she says she wishes you were with her somewhere (a house party for instance) and you mention something about your friend(s) basically wondering if she'd have a girl(s) for your team to get with too.
3. She says yes and eventually you see some of the friends shes working with as she texts you a picture.
4. You become interested in a friend of hers based off the picture
Here's the dilemma: If she was to invite you to chill with her and her posse in the future or vice versa... do you cross that line and try to get at one of the friends instead of her hoping one of your nikkas catch her. Or are you locked in with the girl that you initially met? Better yet...if the spot you go to has even MORE girls that spark your interest (if its a BBQ or party for example) do you desert them girls and try to do your ting?
I mean I dont consider myself locked down obviously...I aint no chump and know that I can navigate through the situation without much difficulty. But if the girls really feeling you...whats stopping her from messing with your game and spreading rumours or sumn. Plus theres risk involved that you may get none of em . THen again, she may consider it a chase especially if other girls at the gathering seem to be feeling you.
How do yall approach these situations?