I respect your answer. I grew up in a majority hispanic neighborhood (mostly PRican) and adapted some of their habits like carrying and using knives/razors
. The term "spic" comes to mind as a derogatory term used to call latinos but the difference with black folks is that Latinos dont call each other spics
So if we call each other nikkas other cultures feel its ok to call us nikkas too.
I must say the word is hurtful when being by those outside of the scope of the word if that makes sense. So when I see a straight hair pointy nose light skin say nikka I get uncomfortable and I hold them accountable for using the word. Most acknowledge my feelings others I have to walk away if you know what I mean