I'm offended off what this bytch tried to pull...

[Suicide King]

But my error was only because I read a vibe off her in the beginning that I didn't feel I needed to explain...

Yeah, I used to make this mistake too, trying to dig deeper.

Now, I only look at what's in front of my face and adjust my approach. If she is good to the core, she'll get that side of me. If she is foul, I'll give her what she is looking for. That way everyone is happy.

I really think you blew your chance not coming with the right chemistry. I think she only wanted sex and to be seduced...your only duty is to make sure you get it for free.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

After reading these responses and conversing With yall and my hhome girl I see my error.

But my error was only because I read a vibe off her in the beginning that I didn't feel I needed to explain... And then she proved it with her gold digging ass comment.

So as always... I respect every response and good looking out

Breh, It's not you fault . It's her fault for not being clearer and leading on with the chilling talk.

What nikka was treating her to a hotel and Jacuzzi ?

She could get this lukewarm nut in her mouth and blow some bubbles, nutcuzzi

 

[Mass]

Yeah, I used to make this mistake too, trying to dig deeper.

Now, I only look at what's in front of my face and adjust my approach. If she is good to the core, she'll get that side of me. If she is foul, I'll give her what she is looking for. That way everyone is happy.

I really think you blew your chance not coming with the right chemistry. I think she only wanted sex and to be seduced...your only duty is to make sure you get it for free.

This bbasically the same thing my girl said .. the thing i know this shyt to but sometimes i just try to keep it to real with women and end up losing man

but yea she said if a dude asks her "are you down for whatever" she instantly dont trust him all he wants is sex and i was like ...

 

[beenz]

only thing good I'll say about what the threadstarter explained is at least he didn't have to spend any bread NOT to get the p*ssy

so its not really a loss, other than a few days of text messaging exchanges.

 

[Suicide King]

This bbasically the same thing my girl said .. the thing i know this shyt to but sometimes i just try to keep it to real with women and end up losing man

but yea she said if a dude asks her "are you down for whatever" she instantly dont trust him all he wants is sex and i was like ...

But you can only be real to someone who is real. This girl obviously wasn't, so you feed her fantasy. I don't do that anymore because I feel dirty doing it, but you fooling yourself if you think she was looking for realness. She was looking for a good time. Guess who wins the prize? The guy who is being sincere? Or the one who is giving her what she want?

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

play chess brehs

 

[Silver Surfer]

you didnt handle this one right bruh....let it be a lesson and move on....

 

[duckbutta]

2013 and nikkas still havent learned not to be the first one to bring up sex when trying to get a chick...

Let the chick bring it up first...cause if she is feeling you like that...she will bring it up...and she will bring it up quickly...

 

[DeuceZ]

No need to be so forward breh...should have said just chill n such

 

[tru_m.a.c]

Day 3: today. I say yo I'm coming out there. She likes wait wait what whoa... Give me time to get ready...
Then the inevitable question... If we chill, what are we gonna do.....
Im sick of that question... But my response was... "are you down for whatever?"
She go "NO ABSOLUTELY NOT"

This is obviously where you fukked up, but there are some other points I wanna touch on.

Good riddance breh, sound like she already had u in the simp/trick category at the gate, fukk that bytch

She did.

Dinner: 60 minimum
Movie: 20 minimum
Hotel: You doing starwood/marriott? shyt even a courtyard is gonna cost you 99 a night minimum.
Gas: Forget about it

And all these expenses are coming from the OP. The only thing this bytch planned on spending was her time.

Breh did this chick really want to do all those things on a first date?? That's some valentines, I've been with my bae for years shyt.

Did she have any intention on paying some of the bill?

See now this is where I would argue you weren't necessarily thirst. But your over aggressive approach on day 3 made her feel like you were only about sex. But its a level deeper. She realizes you're only tryna fukk because you think she's easy/ a ho. And bytches don't like for you to think this. You can know it. They can show it. But once you verbally acknowledge the ho-ness, they recoil like a muhfukkn slinky.

i think OP did good overall.

but some advice breh. unless you want to hear some entitlement and nonsense, don't ask them what they want to do. She tried to play you like that cause you gave her the ball when you asked her that. give her the option to follow you where ever you want to take her instead of having to decide for herself.

Word. The only time I would give a chick the option to make plans, is if I believe our relationship could be more than just fukkn. Why? Because I want to see if......

If a chick aint trying to be mutual, cooperative, or reasonable. She wants to be treated badly.

Its a sad reality. (you get my drift )

 

[O.G.B]

Nikka you wanted p*ssy on day 3 of knowing ol' girl?saw sawWhen she said she wanted you, she meant she liked you not lets bang out. Thirsty ass nikka.

Dumb nikka this bytch didnt want him, she thought he was a simp, saw $$$$$$ & was just gassing homie up trying to play him to see how many gifts she could get for free!

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Gave the broad to many options..

After the attractive and I want you parts..

You was suppose to TELL the chick what yall bout to do.

 

[O.G.B]

2013 and nikkas still havent learned not to be the first one to bring up sex when trying to get a chick...

Let the chick bring it up first...cause if she is feeling you like that...she will bring it up...and she will bring it up quickly...

True to a degree, but some women who want the dikk may be shy or the conservative type & want the man to take charge and pull the freak out of them. So in essence it doesnt matter if the guy is upfront about having sexual relations (as long as you use a little tact & have some swag/smoothness about how you present it )if a female wanna really fukk, it doesnt matter who intiates it first. O.P. was probably a little too raw with his delivery lol but on point with his tactics.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Got my laugh for the night.

 

[Malik]

You came on too strong. You should've said you wanted to chill, cook for her, watch a movie & order takeout. You'd been spreading them cheeks tonight pleighboi

You could've played it even cooler and not made any moves on her the first night and really just chilled and talked to her she'd be at ease and comfortable in your crib alone and feel that you not just looking for sex. Then the second night get it poppin