Im dating my classmates daughter.. I'm 43, she's 25... Am i wrong in Louisiana? :birdman:

[Vandelay]

What do you have in common with your current girl?

I don't have a current girl.

Ex, gym, tv/movie tastes similar, similar slang, music tastes, outlook on life, politics, sexual compatibility.

 

[Stuntone]

what do you even talk about? do you skibidi her toilet and rizz her up with ohio level mewing

Ive always found this to be a silly question. Just in life, ive always found it easy to talk to almost anyone. I was on an Aircraft carrier, I got 5 brothers, a ton of family and friends. I've hosted house party forever, I dj


Even without that, even if we were total opposite, I'd find her perspectives and interest, interesting. But with both of us being from Louisiana, we talk the wild and crazy stuff locally. Place we like to eat, where we've traveled, and want to visit. MUSIC!! You'd be surprised how much 80s and 90s rnb these young women know.

And she's 25, not 14. She's been through a failed relationship and family,/friend/ workplace issues like the rest of us. I think we underestimate how much a 25 year old can have experienced. U can totally fukk your life up a few years out of High school.

 

[JuvenileHell]

what do you even talk about? do you skibidi her toilet and rizz her up with ohio level mewing

shorty is 25 not 19

 

[acri1]

You're both consenting adults. Who cares what people think.

That's easy to say, but her family is always going to be around and you won't get any younger. If they think you're too old for her they'll probably be in her ear telling her to find someone her age. And she might listen eventually.

I'm not hating just don't want to see another miserable divorced nikka on alimony feeling like a young chick played him

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

I thought OP was in his 50s or 60s since he’s always talmbot he’s old

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Too much of an age gap for me, but you're not doing anything wrong. I have to be able to talk and relate to a chick as much as I want to fukk her. 25 year olds ain't talking about shyt but Drake, crocs, tiktok, and using therapy terms incorrectly.

If you date an intelligent woman, her age really doesn't matter. You don't become intelligent overnight. The older women you looking at were already intelligent in their 20s.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

That's easy to say, but her family is always going to be around and you won't get any younger. If they think you're too old for her they'll probably be in her ear telling her to find someone her age. And she might listen eventually.

I'm not hating just don't want to see another miserable divorced nikka on alimony feeling like a young chick played him

Assuming the older man is taking care of her, who would do that goofy shyt? Sounds like jealousy

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

:Birdman:

I went at some pre-Mardi Gras parade after party. I was suited up, fresh u know, Ballys and shyt. Show this really fine teacher from around the way, that always shows me love but I never got at bcuz, she's just too popular for me and is a socialite in the city and I dont like women that know a lot of people. But she was with 2 other women, one was in here 30s and really fine like the one I know. And the other was younger, petite and reserve. My type. I told my boy, everyone is checking out the 2 voluptuous ones, but its the quiet reserve petite are the ones I usually go for. They come threw in the clutch. He nodded agreeing with me. Anyway, the one I knew came up to me and gave me a hug. Introduce me to her teacher friends and told me it's her other fine friends birthday. Being a big OG playa, I buy a round a shots for them and my dogs. I throw that platinum visa on the bar like it was nothing. We all huddled up and I notice little pretty petite was right next to me. We all toast and the bartender hands her my card and bill. She tries to hand it to me, i tell her to sign. Im drunking and stunting. She smiles and asks my name. She signs it and we get to chatting. She has some nice jeans on and an oversized sweater cut short revealing her flat pretty stomach. Lawd hammercy. Before I know it, our legs are intertwined as we're seating at the bar. I got one hand on my drink and one on her waist and side. I just love flat stomachs with nice complexion. We're chatting about 10 mins and I notice her pretty friends are starring at us lol.

As the night ends, we realized we live in the same areas, only blocks apart. We exchanged number at our cars. I noticed her driving behind me as i headed home. Text her to come stop by, she obliged. Pulls up right as I parked. We chat a while decided to go get food. She finally tells me her age and who her parents are. I thought she was like 30. But she was 25. Her mom went to the same school as I. Actually a grade under me. Her Dad is an OG from another hood.

She's been coming over every evening since we met. She's really chill. The hate will come once people find out we kicking, but fukk it.


Louisiana is ratchet and wild, so game is the game. I'm 43 with no kids. Most women 30 and up have kids. Kind forced to date young or be a step dad

im in Louisiana too and i run into the same thing breh....the older ones, which i prefer.....are old and boring....and all into the same shyt....i just cant go young like you doing...im older than you by the way....its tough out here....

Im in BR....you in NOLA?

 

[acri1]

Assuming the older man is taking care of her, who would do that goofy shyt? Sounds like jealousy

If you had a daughter or sister in their 20s, would you want them dating a dude in their 40s or older? Especially knowing he's going to get get old and frail decades before her and she may end up having to take care of him.

Again, not hating, but you gotta think about the long term and whether she'll be loyal when you're 55 and she's still in her 30s

 

[beenz]

only thing I'd be worried about is accidentally knocking up a fertile young 25 year old

 

[BuckFilly]

Dating or fukking?

 

[The ADD]

Do you pleighboi

^^^

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

If you had a daughter or sister in their 20s, would you want them dating a dude in their 40s or older? Especially knowing he's going to get get old and frail decades before her and she may end up having to take care of him.

Again, not hating, but you gotta think about the long term and whether she'll be loyal when you're 55 and she's still in her 30s

If he took care of her, yeah. If he gets old and frail and passes away, she got a nice nest egg.

Fukery knows no bounds. Dudes can be dusty at 23 or 42, don't matter.

 

[Vandelay]

If you date an intelligent woman, her age really doesn't matter. You don't become intelligent overnight. The older women you looking at were already intelligent in their 20s.

That's fair, but dating is a gamble. And there will always be exceptions. You don't always end up with those odds, and intelligence doesn't indicate capability.

If you're intentional in dating, you get more prescriptive because you don't want to waste your time.

 

[Admiral Ackbar]

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