I'm a Black guy that used to be married to an Indian woman AMA

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In this thread : dudes making the relationship into something exotic by asking ridiculous questions....dudes being hypermilitant.....dudes judging the relationship by making up ulterior motives for the female entering the relationship(par for course for tlr;any relationship with a female is immediately scrutinized)....

And crap like this...


Nowhere did op state this. Didn't even imply it...like many many of the dudes asking questions this is you projecting that you yourself view the relationship as special and exotic.

The daps you guys fish for will never buy you a house.

Let op answer.. not you with your sensitive ass

 

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I do feel like being married made me feel special. A happy marriage and having your own family is probably the greatest feeling you'll ever have. Divorce is the worst though.
It just so happens that i was married to an indian woman though. So i guess the answer is yes, just not in the way you're are implying.

what way am i implying. The title doesn't say " I married , had a kid, and now Im divorced,,, come AMA... reread what the title is.. you felt special all the way around. 100% not 50

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

red dot, though she was actually a christian. so she never wore red dots, except as a costume.

If Christian, were her people from Mayalam (Mallu)? If yes, how many friends or family had last names like Mathew, Abraham etc?

 

[Luke Cage]

what way am i implying. The title doesn't say " I married , had a kid, and now Im divorced,,, come AMA... reread what the title is.. you felt special all the way around. 100% not 50

you just told that last poster to let me answer after he said your were projecting your own opinion into my experience, only to dismiss my answer seconds later and do exactly that.

 

[Luke Cage]

If Christian, were her people from Mayalam (Mallu)? If yes, how many friends or family had last names like Mathew, Abraham etc?

nope

 

[BIGGGWIGGG]

escapism

you just told that last poster to let me answer after he said your were projecting your own opinion into my experience, only to dismiss my answer seconds later and do exactly that.

 

[Drew Wonder]

You ever watch that Denzel flick Mississippi Masala?

 

[Luke Cage]

You ever watch that Denzel flick Mississippi Masala?

yeah we watched it together actually, not quite the same experience though. but some similarities.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

what way am i implying. The title doesn't say " I married , had a kid, and now Im divorced,,, come AMA... reread what the title is.. you felt special all the way around. 100% not 50

You know what you are implying. He put indian in the topic becasue that is the interesting part. Black and an indian Is not common and he was able to give insight and answer many questions.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

Did you answer how long were yall married? Do yall still see eachother? Have yall hooked up since the divorce? DO you plan on getting married again?

 

[Mowgli]

They rejected it at first and she was low key disowned. Her mother came to the wedding though and seemed to be fine with. Her Father warmed up to me later we even had drinks together on occasion.

Later she seemed to grow out of her infatuation with black people phase(didn't at the time it was phase)
Went from liking beyonce and wanting our daughter to be black to Only listening to bollywood music and wanting to raise our daughter in indian.
Eventually we became foreign to each other and grew apart.

Did she watch alot of Indian dramas leading up to the separation

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

We met at Disney World. We both worked there at the time, she was a hanging with a black girl i knew through a mutual friend. Got chance to met up.

Were you in the college program in Orlando? Did you work at one of the hotels/resorts or at the parks (did Saratoga Springs and Old Key West myself).

 

[Luke Cage]

Were you in the college program in Orlando? Did you work at one of the hotels/resorts or at the parks (did Saratoga Springs and Old Key West myself).

Yes i did, still got the name badge.

member this?

worked at the Yacht and Beach Club Resort

 

[RennisDeynolds]

That is an Eastern thing. Indians in the West, specifically those from the Caribbean, do not conduct themselves like that.

As someone who spent time in an engineering building during college, you a damn lie . But i guess those are the FOB types - you can always smell Finals time

 

[Luke Cage]

Did you answer how long were yall married? Do yall still see eachother? Have yall hooked up since the divorce? DO you plan on getting married again?

We were married for about 6 years. We don't see each other unless it's about our daughter. Definitely haven't hooked up since the split
Might get married again bu will probably wait until i'm much older, don't want my daughter to have to deal with the insecurities of having a step family and questioning if i care about them more than her and shyt. For now i'm prepared to live the bachelor lifestyle until the woman my age are too old to have kids.