“If your kids are still living with you at 20, you failed as a parent “
- Thread starter BrothaZay
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That's a big negative. I know a bunch of families (off all backgrounds) that hustled the shyt outta that setup.
Why do so many in our community have this mindset? And we wonder why we don’t have any fukking generational wealthy or stability
shyt, I lived with my family until I was 22. My dad was teaching at NCSU and I was attending lol. I saved alot of money and they helped get my house a year later.
And Dahmahnee is a fukking idiot.
Umm no. I left my parents house at 18 and it was a dumb decision. Unless it's a toxic situation, your wasting your money leaving the house. All that money i put in rent and bills could have been saved up or invested. My coworker that's 25 saved his money and is buying his house because he stayed at his parents home and stacked up. If I did it the right way I could have baught way earlier then when I got my house.
Zay with another plat… 
But in all seriousness this is an objectively wrong stance that will set most kids up for failure. I didn’t move out until I was 24 and my dad still helped me out financially until I got my first house when I was 28.
But in all seriousness this is an objectively wrong stance that will set most kids up for failure. I didn’t move out until I was 24 and my dad still helped me out financially until I got my first house when I was 28.
Child_Of_God
Love is a long road.
This is only looked at in a bad way within the Black community. 
Within other cultures it is actually pretty normal for kids past 20 to still live with they’re parents because It’s a good way to save up money and build generational wealth.
Within other cultures it is actually pretty normal for kids past 20 to still live with they’re parents because It’s a good way to save up money and build generational wealth.
This is why immigrants can come here save up and buy a business so easily. They don't give a fukk about the optics of kids living with their parents past highschool.
Bottomline, if you kids can't support themselves you failed as a parent. Thats true. but living with you and supporting themselves don't have to conflict.
Bottomline, if you kids can't support themselves you failed as a parent. Thats true. but living with you and supporting themselves don't have to conflict.
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FACTS!