If you have a good woman...make her smile as much as possible :)

[SouthernBelle]

your man loss for being with a chick who needs to be reminded not to take him for granted.

I didn't say I took him for granted. I go above and beyond for him too. I got an attitude last week (over something legitimate), but in the grand scheme of things it was small and I could have let it go.

You don't know my relationship and you don't know how I treat him from one incident. FOH.

 

[SouthernBelle]

He cheated, get tested.

I'll drive over to the clinic now.

 

[Turbulent]

I didn't say I took him for granted. I go above and beyond for him too. I got an attitude last week (over something legitimate), but in the grand scheme of things it was small and I could have let it go.

You don't know my relationship and you don't know how I treat him from one incident. FOH.

i don't know your relationship. all i know is what you said. you said he didn't deserve the treatment (your words). you also implied that the flower is what made you realize you weren't acting right. in other words, had he not sent you a flower you wouldn't have thought about your actions (meaning you would be taking him for granted).

like i said, i don't know you, him or what happened. can only from what you post on here. If you don't want people to comment on your relationship, don't post about your relationship, (or you could either follow your own advice and get the "fukk outta here" )

 

[porque]

Tell her you love her daily

Take walks with her and hold her hand

Make her feel secure about her status in your heart

Support her dreams brehs...be at the finish line waiting for her when she succeeds and be there to catch her if she falls so you can help her back up

Treat her out to food and let her have the last wing

real woman knows to let them man have the last wing/slice

 

[SouthernBelle]

i don't know your relationship. all i know is what you said. you said he didn't deserve the treatment (your words). you also implied that the flower is what made you realize you weren't acting right. in other words, had he not sent you a flower you wouldn't have thought about your actions (meaning you would be taking him for granted).

like i said, i don't know you, him or what happened. can only from what you post on here. If you don't want people to comment on your relationship, don't post about your relationship, (or you could either follow your own advice and get the "fukk outta here" )

That quote also said ONE time last week. My original quote also referred to CHOOSING YOUR BATTLES and thinking carefully about nagging over something small when overall you have nothing to complain about. I spoke generally and said "small random things like this" will make you reflect on your relationship. That seems like common freaking sense.

You can comment all you want, but to make a generalization about how I treat my man as WHOLE based on ONE example is STUPID. Also being upset with someone doesn't NOT equate to taking them for granted. So again, you get the FOH.

 

[Still Benefited]

some real advice. If your girl is acting right with you for a long period of time,DO NOT CHANGE A THING in the way you're acting. meaning if you're an @sshole and she's acting right, keep being an @sshole. if you're being supportive of her and she's acting right, keep being supportive.

if a chick is fuking with you its because you filling some kind of void or insecurity....soon as you fill that void or insecurity a lot of these women will just find a new damn void or insecurity since the other one is healed...which might be one you can't or are unwilling to fill...all you can do is be you pretty much...most these women is just a never ending forever changing cycle of insecurities,voids...and they gon choose whichever man jumps in to fulfill them at they convienience

 

[Turbulent]

That quote also said ONE time last week. My original quote also referred to CHOOSING YOUR BATTLES and thinking carefully about nagging over something small when overall you have nothing to complain about.

You can comment all you want, but to make a generalization about how I treat my man as WHOLE based on ONE example is STUPID. So again, you get the FOH.

just out of curiosity, did your man check you after you nagged him?

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm serious. I got the flowers today and I've spent half the day thinking about how I was bytchy with him one day last week and how I'm going to work on not doing that again because he doesn't deserve such treat. I felt so ashamed of my behavior

so you basically got flowers because you were bytchy and your man thought he may lose you

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

so you basically got flowers because you were bytchy and your man thought he may lose you

and she thought it was "for no reason"

 

[MikelArteta]

Men only buy flowers on like 4 occasions

1. valentines
2. birthday
3. they cheated or fd up
4. there afraid they are losing you and want to show you how romantic they still can be

 

[SouthernBelle]

just out of curiosity, did your man check you after you nagged him?

Again, I had a "bytchy" attitude and it over something that HE did. My reflection came in because in the grand scheme of things I could have let it go, but it started with something that he did. Therefore, there was nothing to check me on. I (ME) simply reflected that I could have chosen that battle more wisely and that I will try to in the future because maybe it wasn't that big of a deal.

If I randomly nagged him for no damn reason, I am quite certain he would ask me not to do it again. However, if you read properly, I didn't not say that I nagged him last week. My first statement was a general comment stating that small random gestures will have a woman really contemplating where a battle is really worth it in a general sense.

 

[Nintendough]

Every situation doesn't require flexing brehs. I've been on the end of a snappy attitude before but I didn't trip. Most women don't trip over nothing, we contribute to them having an attitude at times. Other times she might be going through something and need to be shown concern, not aggression.

 

[SouthernBelle]

and she thought it was "for no reason"

It was for no reason. First that was last week. This is a whole new week and nothing negative has happened since that day. It's not even something that was at the forefront of either of our minds and again, it wasn't even an argument. I had a bytchy attitude; sue me.

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

It was for no reason. First that was last week. This is a whole new week and nothing negative has happened since that day. It's not even something that was at the forefront of either of our minds and again, it wasn't even an argument. I had a bytchy attitude; sue me.

i love you

 

[SouthernBelle]

so you basically got flowers because you were bytchy and your man thought he may lose you

Considering the fact that he had them sent to my California address that he asked for following our homecoming during the first week of October (not last week or the last few days), I would say those event were NOT correlated and that he planned this a while ago. Your theory also doesn't hold up given the fact that it was a 30 minute incident last week that would provide him no indication that I was thinking of leaving him (I was pissed because he messed up my birthday plans for him).