If You Cheat On Your Girlfriend or Wife, That Means

[Vandelay]

Men can cheat and still love their woman 100%. The tradeoff is, he probably doesn't respect her as a person.

We can talk the nature/nurture nonsense, but ultimately if you love someone, you put your urges in check. I think the most of us are civilized enough for that. Otherwise, don't be in a serious relationship. Simple. Get all the fukking out that you need in your Teens, twenties, and thirties, get money and find a wifey when you are ready to slow it down or women aren't giving you play like that. There isn't any shame in that. No need to habitually lie and make your significant other look like a fool.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

@Giselle if jcole cheated on you...u would stay with him


Stop it

 

[Rawtid]

That is not true at all.

My weakness for lust, my inability to keep my d!ck in my pants have absolutely nothing to do with how i feel about a woman.

I dont expect you women to understand this because you have been brainwashed to associate sex with love since you were born. Dont try to understand howe we (men) are.Just accept it and make your decisions on how you interact with us based on that

It's more like men have been brainwashed to believe that sex is just another task like putting on underwear.

Your weakness is just that. It's something YOU need to work on, not have women try to understand. Lol

 

[intruder]

No one should take any relationship advice from you. You are an old, lonely, lovless man. & I see why. I think I've told you this before in another thread.

Darling ive never claimed to be an relationship expert. I'm a product of my life experiences and ive played the cards that ive been dealt.

As far as my love life goes, Are there women that im in love with, im infatuated with, damn near obsessed with? Yes. But the one i love so passionately has used me as spare dikk most of the time. The women that love me with such passion dont generate equal passion out of me. So until i find the one where we have that balance i refuse to settle. In the meantime the people i date know i care for them and love them.. logically. But im a sucker for emotional love and thats what i want

 

[satireprod]

I've never "done any wrong". I'm not a cheater.



She doesn't love or respect you and you should leave and get a dna test if you have children.

Lol fair enough. I thought you were just taking men who cheated to task without talking about women.

 

[intruder]

It's more like men have been brainwashed to believe that sex is just another task like putting on underwear.

Your weakness is just that. It's something YOU need to work on, not have women try to understand. Lol

We can both argue that both genders have been brainwashed to make sex something it's not

You think other animals view sex the same way?

 

[InDePickWest]

Of course men are going to try to find reasons as to why a man cheating isnt all that bad.

If you guys can seperate sex from love, why do you get mad when a woman cheats? In this thread men downplay themselves to sexual idiots and women to emotional globs of nothing. Some of yall need sun.

 

[Rawtid]

We can both argue that both genders have been brainwashed to make sex something it's not

You think other animals view sex the same way?

Lmao you're not an animal. It's dumb as shyt to compare yourself to lions and shyt. Say that shyt when the bills come. "I'm not paying this mortgage because I'm like a lion" LMMFAO!!

As a human you have the ability to control your actions. You said it was a weakness.

 

[NinoBrown]

It isn't really cheating if it is just a gf.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Pleasurable sexual habits die hard.

People who rotate different people in the beginning seasons of sex life don't grow out of it simply because they desire a spouse and/or gain one. But they'll foster a commitment with a significant other for the benefits of having a man or woman in your corner. Cheating is the word said s/o uses when they find out the person is doing them.

But there's a variety of lifelines/tricks said people employ as damage control, like crying, accusing the s/o of not performing their s/o duties correctly, pretending they had an isolated moment of weakness, accusing the person they cheated with of seduction or rape, etc.

 

[Rawtid]

It isn't really cheating if it is just a gf.

Then why bother committing in the first place? It is cheating whe you've agreed to commit.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

LOL Not at all.

I tried

 

[Giselle]

@Giselle if jcole cheated on you...u would stay with him


Stop it

lol I would never stay with a cheater, Idc who he is.

 

[NinoBrown]

Then why bother committing in the first place? It is cheating whe you've agreed to commit.

Sake of convenience really.

 

[Rawtid]

Pleasurable sexual habits die hard.

People who rotate different people in the beginning seasons of sex life don't grow out of it simply because they desire a spouse and/or gain one. But they'll foster a commitment with a significant other for the benefits of having a man or woman in your corner. Cheating is the word said s/o uses when they find out the person is doing them.

But there's a variety of lifelines/tricks said people employ as damage control, like crying, accusing the s/o of not performing their s/o duties correctly, pretending they had an isolated moment of weakness, accusing the person they cheated with of seduction or rape, etc.

Bullshyt. We really need to stop giving excuses to behavior that people can control. You're not "doing you", you are lying. Simple as that. You're a liar. It's nothing else wrong with you.