If women reach their sexual prime in their 30s, why are alot of marriages sexless?

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This is a stat I grabbed from the other thread:



In 2003, Newsweek noted that 15% to 20% of couples have sex less than 10 times a year, which is defined as a "sexless" marriage. I recently read that an estimated 15% of marriages become sexless, and making love less than 10 times per year can be the norm for some couples.




I've always wondered this. If women in their 30s are supposed to be going through their sexual prime, an increase in their libidos, why the hell does every married man complain about sexless marriages? :beli: Less than 10 times a year breh? That sounds like hell. If this myth was halfway true, then every married man should be getting his needs met frequently :ehh: It doesn't add up. Unless, that "women reach their sexual prime in their 30s" frame of thinking means, she's exploring that new found confidence with the pool boy :takedat:





What is it about marriage that makes couples go from this...

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To this...

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many reasons such as because women become unattractive in their 30's who wants to lay with a old fossil.

also women change once they get married, all that hot sex you got before is now only when she feels like it
 

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Women give up the hot sex before marriage just to get you to put the ring on it, once you marry her there's no incentive to keep giving up the p*ssy..

She won.. Plus with no fault divorce & Big Daddy Gov't in her corner, she holds all the strings..
 
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Those stats aren't incredibly unbelievable though. This means that 80% of marriages do have sex. Thats the overwhelming majority.
 

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Excellent question. I feel that that's a lie. Mentally most women prob do peak around 30s but the physical peak is Around 25. . Plus even at peak no woman will want sex as much as guys in a relationship! E relationship part is key since men can always have sex but if the relationship is lacking somehow a woman will lose interest in sex. Women are simply not programmed born to think about sex the same
 
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Excellent question. I feel that that's a lie. Mentally most women prob do peak around 30s but the physical peak is Around 25. . Plus even at peak no woman will want sex as much as guys in a relationship! E relationship part is key since men can always have sex but if the relationship is lacking somehow a woman will lose interest in sex. Women are simply not programmed born to think about sex the same


I agree with your post. Men are definitely wired differently when it comes to sex. They want it more frequently and this is why so many of them do desperate things for sex such as resorting to watching porn, paying for sex from prostitutes and strippers, and engaging in homosexual activity. A man who can't get control of his sexual urges is doomed. This is why god has mandated that men seek a wife as soon as possible, and he has also mandated that a wife work hard to please her husband (i.e. not withholding sex) A man can accomplish so much if he isn't being distracted by sex.
 

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I agree with your post. Men are definitely wired differently when it comes to sex. They want it more frequently and this is why so many of them do desperate things for sex such as resorting to watching porn, paying for sex from prostitutes and strippers, and engaging in homosexual activity. A man who can't get control of his sexual urges is doomed. This is why god has mandated that men seek a wife as soon as possible, and he has also mandated that a wife work hard to please her husband (i.e. not withholding sex) A man can accomplish so much if he isn't being distracted by sex.

:what::wtf::comeon::whoa::dwillhuh:
 

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I have been in a long term relationship with my ole lady (7 years) and honestly, I would rather jack off. She is nice looking and all but by the time you date a chick for a few years, that sh1t just ain't that important to you anymore.

I bet people in "sexless marriages" don't even realize they had sex with their s/o 10 times or less this year.
 

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I agree with your post. Men are definitely wired differently when it comes to sex. They want it more frequently and this is why so many of them do desperate things for sex such as resorting to watching porn, paying for sex from prostitutes and strippers, and engaging in homosexual activity. A man who can't get control of his sexual urges is doomed. This is why god has mandated that men seek a wife as soon as possible, and he has also mandated that a wife work hard to please her husband (i.e. not withholding sex) A man can accomplish so much if he isn't being distracted by sex.

:wow2:
 

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I have been in a long term relationship with my ole lady (7 years) and honestly, I would rather jack off. She is nice looking and all but by the time you date a chick for a few years, that sh1t just ain't that important to you anymore.

I bet people in "sexless marriages" don't even realize they had sex with their s/o 10 times or less this year.

:cheers: i been wit my girl 5 years.. we still be fukkin but it aint shyt nomore lol
 

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I agree with your post. Men are definitely wired differently when it comes to sex. They want it more frequently and this is why so many of them do desperate things for sex such as resorting to watching porn, paying for sex from prostitutes and strippers, and engaging in homosexual activity. A man who can't get control of his sexual urges is doomed. This is why god has mandated that men seek a wife as soon as possible, and he has also mandated that a wife work hard to please her husband (i.e. not withholding sex) A man can accomplish so much if he isn't being distracted by sex.

Shut up
 

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I have been in a long term relationship with my ole lady (7 years) and honestly, I would rather jack off. She is nice looking and all but by the time you date a chick for a few years, that sh1t just ain't that important to you anymore.

I bet people in "sexless marriages" don't even realize they had sex with their s/o 10 times or less this year.


Coolidge effect..
 

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I agree with your post. Men are definitely wired differently when it comes to sex. They want it more frequently and this is why so many of them do desperate things for sex such as resorting to watching porn, paying for sex from prostitutes and strippers, and engaging in homosexual activity. A man who can't get control of his sexual urges is doomed. This is why god has mandated that men seek a wife as soon as possible, and he has also mandated that a wife work hard to please her husband (i.e. not withholding sex) A man can accomplish so much if he isn't being distracted by sex.

:cheers: i been wit my girl 5 years.. we still be fukkin but it aint shyt nomore lol


Been with my wife for 7 years. Married for 3 and the sex is only getting better and better. You neggas gotta know how to put her into it :jawalrus:


or maybe you neggas don't feel her the same way y all used to :yeshrug:
 
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