I’m cool with my exes. Don’t harbor any resentment or negativity towards them. It’s easy for me to wish people well if I’m vindicated. Once I’ve extracted my fistful of tears for any shyt you put me through, I can wish you well. We both messed up. Let’s put it all behind us.
Crazy part is, sometimes, when you treat em like shyt that’s the main time they want you. I’ll never get that dynamic. Be nice and sweet to them. They take you for granted. Put them through an emotional gauntlet, literally tear em down and Viola! They got a hard-on for you. It’s baffling.