If she cheats on you but still likes & love you - is it that bad?

[TLOL is back]

Not really. Men do the same thing, you see it in threads on TLR every day. Men just blame biology, women blame emotions. Its what society teaches us is acceptable.

Poor attempt at a false equivalence. These same dudes in TLR that blame biology would acknowledged they're wrong if they were hanging with their friends. Women actually believe they aren't accountable, or feel that they are and feel 0 guilt.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

I agree with that. I don't condone cheating, and I think its equally despicable of both genders. Just be honest.I was just commenting on men trying to frame their stepping out as more justifiable and less despicable as when women do.

Nah that's just ego, because the possibility of their dikk not being enough, and the feeling of being duped when you thought you had her on lock etc. It's just dudes catching feelings because their ego got in the way or "she seemed so innocent" etc. Females can be just as grimey as men, they just tend to be more subtle about it because if shyt gets real they can't get physical with a man, so underhanded tactics work best for females.

 

[Anothergirl]

I agree with that. I don't condone cheating, and I think its equally despicable of both genders. Just be honest. I was just commenting on men trying to frame their stepping out as more justifiable and less despicable as when women do.

as if cheating for biological reasons is any better that cheating for "emotional" ones...aren't "emotions" biological anyways




P.S. fu*k men and women who have no self control and cheat.

 

[GetSomeMoney]

you want me to read a study from fox news


this quote is about getting a woman in the mood.


this quote is about competition. when does sex mean interpersonal conflict and competition


since a girl doesn't fantasize daily she's not going to cheat?

this just proves my point. society is apart of environment i have been called a dike and a skeaze. you now have examples of punishment women receive for daring to speak out on sexuality.

Interesting you find the few societal influence quotes from a medical link

 

[god shamgod]

If a chick cheats on you and you take her back she will do it again.That goes for all people who cheat.If you enable it and allow them back in like everythings cool it wont stop cuz they know they can do it and get away with it wit no repercussions

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Lemme find out a chick I'm wit eam just kissed anotha dood. Bish it's a fukkin wrap for you.

I have absolutely ZERO tolerance for anything remotely resemblin cheatin. FOH hoe.

 

[Will Ross]

wow @ Helga's SARCASM flying over everyones head.
she's basically throwing every excuse you GUYS on here love to use ...right back in your faces. doesn't sound so "reasonable" when the shoes on the other foot does it fellas?

She does the same thing in every thread and it never works.

 

[The ADD]

There is no tolerance for that and its over immediately.

 

[Stoop Kid]

the word love gets thrown around too much... if 2 people really "love" each other then neither person would ever feel the need to cheat

 

[MidniteJay]

Love....real love.....is NOT fukking other people. Period. There is NO better way to show love for an s/o.

Just because some of you are to the idea of true sexual monogamy, doesn't mean that it can't be done, or that you should redefine loving someone as just really caring about them a whole lot.....while sucking off another nikka.

We live in a selfish society where most people believe if it makes you feel good, then there's nothing wrong with it and you should do it. There's barely even a sense of right and wrong anymore because people do whatever they can to justify wrong when it benefits THEM.

The moment you cheat and then go back to your man as if nothing is wrong, then you've become selfish and a liar. If he said/did something wrong, then you tell him about whatever it is and try to work it out. If he refuses/is unable to correct it and it's that big a deal to you, then you do the best thing for both of you (the right thing) and leave his ass. Simple. fukking other nikkas ain't gonna change shyt, and if you really want a variety of dikks in you then you shouldn't be lying to one of those nikkas and telling them you only wanna be with them.

As for the 'mistake' part.....punching your nose up into your brain after finding out you cheated, would also be a 'mistake'. Does that mean it's not wrong? Does that mean I didn't make a bad decision? Does that mean there shouldn't be any consequences for me doing that? OK, then.

SMH @ 'loving' your boyfriend/husband while letting another nikka rearrange your guts. If a chick tells a nikka she cheated but still loves him, he'd better either do the right thing and leave, or see if two wrongs can indeed make a right and go ham on all the other hoes, while still 'loving' wifey. See how she likes that kind of 'love' when she's on the receiving end of it.

 

[FaTaL]

They need to air all of the footage

 

[Nemesis]

sometimes women cheat. that doesn't mean they don't love you. they just gave into temptation. it happens. her covering it up is a sign of her love. if she was sloppy with it then that show she doesn't care

Stupid bytches and their double standards......lol

 

[MMS]

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

sometimes women cheat. that doesn't mean they don't love you. they just gave into temptation. it happens. her covering it up is a sign of her love. if she was sloppy with it then that show she doesn't care

Gosh you're still the dumbest bytch on here

Temptation?? people choose to cheat..it doesnt just happen

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

If a chick cheats on you and you take her back she will do it again.That goes for all people who cheat.If you enable it and allow them back in like everythings cool it wont stop cuz they know they can do it and get away with it wit no repercussions

not true...

youre basically saying that people cant change....

and that i dont agree with