If she cheats after 30 years of marriage would you leave or stay?

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Stay, let her go out and get some strange once 'n a while ... you had the prime years when it was tight and juicy....

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Times are different now but some things stay the same.... It depends. Most marriages won't end due to a single act of infidelity unless there are more sinister motives behind the divorce.

Women will not divorce unless they are sure they can secure alimony and/or child support and they know that their desirability is still high enough to get them another man equal or greater in quality.

Men will not divorce unless they have a way of getting out of the marriage without being financially ruined.
 

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Oprah could've got the dikk in this movie though...she was looking legit bad as fukk.
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chances are I've already cheated n her so :yeshrug:
Lol got a older head I know that literally in this same predicament

Been with his wife bout 20+ years she cheated with a old class mate and he forgave her and told the fam " shyt I done did so much bullshyt on her (nikka a truck driver literally got another family in Milwaukee lol) that I can't even be mad at her"

Today they still together and seem to be happy they in church and done changed really a surprising story

Ask my opinion tho I think the dude just don't want to get hit with that alimony lol
 

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Lol got a older head I know that literally in this same predicament

Been with his wife bout 20+ years she cheated with a old class mate and he forgave her and told the fam " shyt I done did so much bullshyt on her (nikka a truck driver literally got another family in Milwaukee lol) that I can't even be mad at her"

Today they still together and seem to be happy they in church and done changed really a surprising story

Ask my opinion tho I think the dude just don't want to get hit with that alimony lol

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whenever I think im a scumbag, theres alaways someone who has a 1up on me. ... :damn:
 

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Lol got a older head I know that literally in this same predicament

Been with his wife bout 20+ years she cheated with a old class mate and he forgave her and told the fam " shyt I done did so much bullshyt on her (nikka a truck driver literally got another family in Milwaukee lol) that I can't even be mad at her"

Today they still together and seem to be happy they in church and done changed really a surprising story

Ask my opinion tho I think the dude just don't want to get hit with that alimony lol

What if you did no dirt though? On some Richard Grier in Unfaithful shyt :mjpls:
 

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whenever I think im a scumbag, theres alaways someone who has a 1up on me. ... :damn:
Fam I got so many people I know that's into truck driving (shyt like the it job now like back before to work for the post office) and nearly all these dudes got other women in other cities. Truck driving is legit the only profession I have seen men get away with cheating for literally years without ever getting caught

"I was on the road" saves these dudes from everything. Dude had another chick and 2 kids in Milwaukee and a son and a step daughter in Chicago and got away with it for over 10 years.

The dude literally had to come clean with it himself to get caught or his wife would have never found out lol
 

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What if you did no dirt though? On some Richard Grier in Unfaithful shyt :mjpls:
I think you gotta be a grown man about and don't take a teenage talk show approach to shyt

I know dudes here are all pimps and got 7 hoes on stand by

But in real life in 30 years you done accumulated so many assets so many kids and grand kids, the commitments you both have to church and jobs and whatever those 2 done got into. You just have to consider everything before you make a decision cause you in your feelings

Those 2 splitting up could break a whole family apart. It's levels to this shyt

So I would see the remorse and how sincere the apology is. Maybe I can let it go for the sake of the big picture.


:mjpls: she go have to see tho, I now have that free pass tho.
 

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right now my mindstate is i would leave but it's the type of shyt you have to go through it to really know.
 

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Lol got a older head I know that literally in this same predicament

Been with his wife bout 20+ years she cheated with a old class mate and he forgave her and told the fam " shyt I done did so much bullshyt on her (nikka a truck driver literally got another family in Milwaukee lol) that I can't even be mad at her"

Today they still together and seem to be happy they in church and done changed really a surprising story

Ask my opinion tho I think the dude just don't want to get hit with that alimony lol
that's the type of shyt that's so foul you almost respect the lack of shame dude has :pachaha:
 
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