BmoreGorilla
Veteran
She was consistently the same person that whole time. Same routines and everything. She rarely left the house except for work or shopping. I always told her she needed to go out more. She was constantly worried about what I was doing and who I was with. A lot of that was becuz she watched her parents cheat and abuse each other growing up. Once I noticed her going out to the gym more, starting shyt for no reason, saying she needed space, etc. I knew what time it was immediately. I hinted at it a few times and she denied it. I didn't believe her so I did my homework and found out everythingI couldn't imagine being with someone 10 years and then they finally cheat on me, that bond is so fukking deep at that point. shyt would leave me in a deep depression for a good minute. To your credit though, you seem to be dealing with it well. Feel free to ignore the question if you don't wanna think about it, but have you ever wondered or confirmed how long she might have been cheating on you, or if this was even the first and only guy she cheated on you with?