If Black Men Stopped Idolizing Straightened Hair, Our Women Would Be More Beautiful
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Ricky Church
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Mr Uncle Leroy
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an african american lady...showed me pics of a white chicks...and she was belittling herself to the white chick...it was very sick...
DerrtySouthpaw
Gawdisbyke
man i love bytches wit dreads fukk what yall talkin bout more for me
I've seen plenty of black women who have naturally straight/afro/curly hair. A black man preferring straight hair doesnt necessarily make him a c00n or traitor.
And just because he prefers a fro or dreads doesnt make him "blacker" than the next man either.
The woman with the straight hair could very well from an African country while having a family tree that dates back generations. She could have real knowledge on her peoples(not that shyt they fed you in history class), whereas the girl with the fro or dreads could be frontin, trying to look the part, while not really caring about her roots (dont ask me how)
We are a very diverse people in looks, history, and culture... Just so happens not a lot of people seem to believe this, or care
And just because he prefers a fro or dreads doesnt make him "blacker" than the next man either.
The woman with the straight hair could very well from an African country while having a family tree that dates back generations. She could have real knowledge on her peoples(not that shyt they fed you in history class), whereas the girl with the fro or dreads could be frontin, trying to look the part, while not really caring about her roots (dont ask me how)
We are a very diverse people in looks, history, and culture... Just so happens not a lot of people seem to believe this, or care
yes we are a diverse people, and yes some of our people do have naturally straight hair, but the majority of us, do not... nor did our ancestors
the point of this thread is to promote a love of naturalism as opposose to hair that has been transformed from our original texture, to the texture of the originally/naturally straight haired races.
I have obviously struck a chord with a lot of the brothas in here who want to take no responsibility in the role of our women trying to look like someone who they aren't, but regardless, the truth is, if we didn't accept that from our women, some may continue down that path, but the majority would do what the men of their race find acceptable/desirable.
Like one poster mentioned above, in an attempt to contradict my thesis, us men of this generation have grown up seeing straightened hair and weave, and that's what we have become attracted to. But it's our responsibility to break away from that tainted lust, and turn back to what we are suppose to truly love...which is natural beauty from our women. No chemicals, no synthetics, nothing... but the true essence and beauty of our black women.
But as you see, society's manipulation on our minds has worked so well, in favor of the devil's plan, that afro's dread locks, and other natural hair styles that we once sported proudly, have become a symbol of mockery and derision amongst black men. Even the idea of a natural sister, turns many black men away.
It has become ugly, unbecoming, uncouth, uncivilized... basically everything except beautiful. But to the enlightened mind, a sista who wears her hair naturally is a step ahead of all sistas still in the dark, pouring acid on their scalp to "relax"/destroy what has been given to them by their Creator.
Black women in their proper height/weight are maybe the beautiful women in history. It's the attitudes and energy in how you deal with them that affects your interactions and your off brand perception of them.
this is true... its a combination of many issues they are going thru
but, as a man, its up to us, to take control of the situation
to teach them to love themselves for who they are
but how can they love themselves, when we are constantly showing them that our 1st desire is for women of other races, leading them to imitate the same women who we foolishly lust after.
It's a prophetic sickness, that the black race suffers from. The thing is, its on us rule over them, not the other way around
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Sierra Mist
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man stfu. when little girls are getting weaves they aren't trying to impress some 5 year old boys. gtfo here with that shyt. I'm tired of you fake wannabe afro centric nikkas. just stfu already. When little boys grow up in a house where their mom is always wearing weaves, every black girl on tv is always wearing weaves wtf do you expect? Black women wear weaves for themselves. Not for men. Black women don't even lose weight for black men when most people don't like fat women so why would they buy weaves? Dumb fake afro centric fakkit. just stfu.
Green negs and spam
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Yeah I like the natural look.
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