If a woman you are interested in admitted to cheating on past boyfriends...

[Address_Unknown]

I would, but I'd be lying if I wouldn't be

For the first few months in our courtship, though.

People can change, but you got to be wary of the deviants that use this cover to keep perpetuating the same cycle of deceit and emotional exploitation on folk who are lonely and easily manipulated.

 

[Tombstone]

Did you start a lot of arguments just so you can have the space and justification for cheating by saying yall weren't technically together?

Nah I never played those games I would just do it.

 

[Aphrodite]

I would, but I'd be lying if I wouldn't be

For the first few months in our courtship, though.

People can change, but you got to be wary of the deviants that use this cover to keep perpetuating the same cycle of deceit and emotional exploitation on folk who are lonely and easily manipulated.

She couldve kept it to herself or lied. Her telling you could be a sign she is different. Especially if she told you why she cheated.

 

[horizon]

yes

 

[Tombstone]

Women can choose to not date me, I have no problem with a girl tellin me "you cheated we cant date"

Im not gonna limit self to women who've cheated just cuz I did. Im supposed to deny a woman who wants to date me "sorry I cheated, you didnt..we cant be together"

 

[Kinguno]

It depends on her story

A couple of women I was fukking cheated because they got cheated on


And I had a few women friends in long distance relationships and you know how that goes

 

[Aphrodite]

It depends on her story

A couple of women I was fukking cheated because they got cheated on


And I had a few women friends in long distance relationships and you know how that goes

What if she admitted it was because the men got cold toward her or stopped giving her affection regularly?

 

[Aphrodite]

Women can choose to not date me, I have no problem with a girl tellin me "you cheated we cant date"

Im not gonna limit self to women who've cheated just cuz I did. Im supposed to deny a woman who wants to date me "sorry I cheated, you didnt..we cant be together"

Would it make a difference if she said it was emotional cheating and never physical? Or is that worse?

 

[ill_will82]

I'd respect her honesty but it would always be in the back of my mind.

Exactly. I would respect the honesty but knowing that she may have a tendency to cheat would :idontknow1:

 

[Address_Unknown]

She couldve kept it to herself or lied. Her telling you could be a sign she is different. Especially if she told you why she cheated.

That's true and real talk, I appreciate the honesty, especially if the relationships they cheated in were less than stellar to begin with.

But as a man who detests cheating when you can find ways out of the relationship, even the abusive ones, I still think it's a bit of a weak excuse personally instead of trying to get out of it so you can start something new and hopefully more nurturing.

 

[Kinguno]

What if she admitted it was because the men got cold toward her or stopped giving her affection regularly?

It depends on her

But as the greatest rapper of all time said "just cuz I fukk her don't mean I trust her"

 

[ill_will82]

hell no

i had chicks literally who was interested in me tell me about cheating on previous dudes and even went as far as saying they was gangbang a few times just to get back on their dudes who cheated on them,,,

they all belong to a church now

Hell No just No No No. :imoutofhere1:

 

[shyguy]

Nah, I lose attraction because I start getting a gutter slut vibe from them.

 

[Tombstone]

Would it make a difference if she said it was emotional cheating and never physical? Or is that worse?

Thatll be worse to me cuz it shows that she can hide those emotions.

 

[Aphrodite]

Thatll be worse to me cuz it shows that she can hide those emotions.

Interesting.