if a woman tells you she's been raped multiple times - not once, not twice, not 3 times but

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

That’s why breaking the silence is so important. Fukk no snitching culture. I need vulnerable people to be armed to the teeth and willing to tell the world about the creepy ass motherfukkers trying to touch on them. This is also why I’m so much against prostitution, sexual exploitation of women and pimps. These chicks don’t enter into those professions willingly and magically at the legal age of consent. Many were being touched on YEARS prior but it’s inconvenient to think about when u trying to fukk em.

All of these dynamics need to be fleshed out. Far too many women AND men too get touched on in our community but we have a tendency to want to blame the victims b/c the people doing the touching are people we admire for whatever reason. Word to R. Kelly.

but even then, hurt ppl hurt ppl, cause Kelly himself is a product of being touched. smh

ya I’ve seen/heard about it too many times from my work experience...one child reported her stepdad who had been repeatedly raping her...not bcuz she thought what he was doing was wrong but bcuz he threatened to kill himself if she told that same morning...and she was so distraught over the thought of him killing himself that she still told thinking it would be for his safety...real sick dude smmfh...he was arrested when he came to pick her up

are you in social work, breh breh?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Very very true and something people seem to not understand. I have friends and people that I mentor that have been raped multiple times, sometimes by the same person because it's just become a pattern that has been locked in. In the same way drug addicts and other compulsions work, when you have low self esteem, trauma and worst of all SHAME, especially surrounding childhood abuse you can be compelled to put yourself in situations that reflect what you feel. People like that are natural prey for abusers, they know who's hurt and who they can manipulate, partially because they probably had it done to them at some point, it's a vicious cycle.

it's plenty of straight up strong arm rape going on, some of it is really traumatized people almost using others as a proxy for self harm and punishment on a subconscious level.

This all day everyday.

 

[Low End Derrick]

lol this is some of the best advice a man can get. Depending on the circumstances, if a woman has told me she’s gotten raped just once, im running the other way because I don’t wanna be falsely accused. fukk that. And before anyone brings this up, false rape accusations are actually much higher than 2%. In reality, there are several studies where the false accusation rate is as low as 2-8% to as high as 40+%. I’m not fukking taking my chances.


It’s just like when employers avoid litigious employees. It’s proper liability management.

Short says she been abused and the first thing that comes into your head is

“Oh shyt, this bytch is CRAZY! Lemme skidaddle!”

smh who raised you nikkas?

 

[old pig]

are you in social work, breh breh?

nah...taught for 17 years

 

[TheBigBopper]

Short says she been abused and the first thing that comes into your head is

“Oh shyt, this bytch is CRAZY! Lemme skidaddle!”

smh who raised you nikkas?

Again, it depends on the circumstances. If I’ve known her for awhile and she seems like an honest person, I would support her. If she’s just telling me this on the first or second date, then fukk yes I am saving my ass because metoo doesn’t give a fukk about due process and I’m not a naive ass nikka.

 

[Urahara_Kisuke]

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Short says she been abused and the first thing that comes into your head is

“Oh shyt, this bytch is CRAZY! Lemme skidaddle!”

smh who raised you nikkas?

some folks don't want to deal with that. If you tell a woman something traumatic about you, sometimes they give you the and go ghost, breh

so don't shame brehs if that's something they don't want to deal with. It's their choice and it's not a bad reflection on who raised them

everybody don't have training to be a counselor


I might go ghost on her because of the fact that I know I'm an ignant nicca that ain't PC when it comes to sensitive topics, and I don't want to say something that gets her triggered and in her feelings and further traumatize her

 

[Ashley Banks]

A lot of rape victims make easy targets, a rapist will actively seek them out and what made them easy targets the first time will more than likely be the same thing for the 2nd or 3rd time.

You guys have a weird mentality when it comes to rape, it’s like you NEVER want to believe it. There are bad people in the world, it happens A LOT.