if a woman tells you she's been raped multiple times - not once, not twice, not 3 times but

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

shyt breh, I'm sorry my dude. No one should ever have to deal with that.You handled it right by nipping that shyt in the bud.

but what if I wasn't there? and who knows how many other ppl she might have said that to? I honestly don't know

that's why I don't take women at face value when they claim rape. Nah, you gotta give me facts. Sorry. But I've been lied on and I know others who have.

By that same token, I know women who were telling the truth.

So it's a fine line that I try to walk. But one thing is... I don't let ppl make it seem like rape is "so sensitive an issue" that we can't ever talk about it. Nah let's talk about it and discuss it.

That's how we get to the bottom of it.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

^^^

nikka you have no point...you are clearly ignorant about rape...statutory rape in particular and being defensive about it...the bold is what I’m annoyed w/

in the other thread all the jokes were about the loser ass bytch who molested the little boy...there were a handful of ppl who tried to say the kid wanted it and they got rightfully called out for their bullshyt rhetoric

dude quit lying. Folks were also joking on her husband. Everybody caught strays in that thread. But the difference is, nobody in there was acting like a sensitive little loser like you're doing right now

 

[old pig]

dude quit lying. Folks were also joking on her husband. Everybody caught strays in that thread. But the difference is, nobody in there was acting like a sensitive little loser like you're doing right now

nikka gtfoh...you had multiple times to respond to me before...now you just quoting me outta boredom lol

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Comingtoamerica

• FaTaL
• Aug 26, 2017

whether she’s lying or telling the truth u don’t wannabe be number 4

Dap+reputation

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

nikka gtfoh...you had multiple times to respond to me before...now you just quoting me outta boredom lol

 

[King Poetic]

I thought dealing with women who daddy wasn’t in they lives and looking for a father figure in a man was bad, but rape 3 times, that woman should just focus on doing her

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

I’ve said it again and I’ve said it before; chicks who’ve been raped are damaged goods. Getting involved with that headache isn’t worth it. She’s gone, mentally

 

[old pig]

...and for the record I have no real issue w/ you...you a cool poster....just didn’t understand some of the things you were asking in here

 

[DPresidential]

Why is this even a thread? Someone please bush this

This.

shyt is OD inappropriate and weird as fukk.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

...and for the record I have no real issue w/ you...you a cool poster....just didn’t understand some of the things you were asking in here

same here, breh. you're cool. I think this is the first disagreement we ever had, and it's cool. Feel free to disagree with me. I like conversation and opposing viewpoints because it can help us learn more.

As I stated earlier, and I wasn't joking about this... I learned something from Books in here

so to me, this is a good thread.

And if you read my personal experiences that I posted above, it might help you see where I'm coming from. We're all a product of our experiences, and I'm simply a product of the experiences that I've had. and obviously so are a lot of other brehs, cause a lot of ppl in here are agreeing with me

So like I said... this is obviously a conversation we should have more often. We can't just turn our brains off and go into reactive mode every time the word "rape" is mentioned. Nah, let's address it and have conversation.

 

[horizon]

You don't think predators can suss out prey?

 

[SunZoo]

Being abused especially when young can create a mentality of worthlessness that makes some place themselves in vulnerable situations...thus increasing the likelihood of repeated abuse. Some types of men prey on these types of chicks and know what to look for.

This is very sad and it takes a lot of inner strength and mental work for a rape victim to overcome that potential abuse carousel.

Very very true and something people seem to not understand. I have friends and people that I mentor that have been raped multiple times, sometimes by the same person because it's just become a pattern that has been locked in. In the same way drug addicts and other compulsions work, when you have low self esteem, trauma and worst of all SHAME, especially surrounding childhood abuse you can be compelled to put yourself in situations that reflect what you feel. People like that are natural prey for abusers, they know who's hurt and who they can manipulate, partially because they probably had it done to them at some point, it's a vicious cycle.

it's plenty of straight up strong arm rape going on, some of it is really traumatized people almost using others as a proxy for self harm and punishment on a subconscious level.

 

[old pig]

And if you read my personal experiences that I posted above, it might help you see where I'm coming from. We're all a product of our experiences, and I'm simply a product of the experiences that I've had. and obviously so are a lot of other brehs, cause a lot of ppl in here are agreeing with me

I’ve had a similar experience...granted she lied about sexual assault not rape...the irony is I’m the one who said “let’s stop” smh...if the woman in the OP was an adult when all this occurred then I would’ve been a bit more skeptical about her accounts...but if that dude was actually receiving oral sex from her among the other things she shared when she was underage then that’s definitely rape on his part

 

[old pig]

Very very true and something people seem to not understand. I have friends and people that I mentor that have been raped multiple times, sometimes by the same person because it's just become a pattern that has been locked in. In the same way drug addicts and other compulsions work, when you have low self esteem, trauma and worst of all SHAME, especially surrounding childhood abuse you can be compelled to put yourself in situations that reflect what you feel. People like that are natural prey for abusers, they know who's hurt and who they can manipulate, partially because they probably had it done to them at some point, it's a vicious cycle.

it's plenty of straight up strong arm rape going on, some of it is really traumatized people almost using others as a proxy for self harm and punishment on a subconscious level.

ya I’ve seen/heard about it too many times from my work experience...one child reported her stepdad who had been repeatedly raping her...not bcuz she thought what he was doing was wrong but bcuz he threatened to kill himself if she told that same morning...and she was so distraught over the thought of him killing himself that she still told thinking it would be for his safety...real sick dude smmfh...he was arrested when he came to pick her up

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Are you considering young ladies who may be victims of sexual abuse at the hands of family members or friends?

That’s why breaking the silence is so important. Fukk no snitching culture. I need vulnerable people to be armed to the teeth and willing to tell the world about the creepy ass motherfukkers trying to touch on them. This is also why I’m so much against prostitution, sexual exploitation of women and pimps. These chicks don’t enter into those professions willingly and magically at the legal age of consent. Many were being touched on YEARS prior but it’s inconvenient to think about when u trying to fukk em.

All of these dynamics need to be fleshed out. Far too many women AND men too get touched on in our community but we have a tendency to want to blame the victims b/c the people doing the touching are people we admire for whatever reason. Word to R. Kelly.