if a woman tells you she's been raped multiple times - not once, not twice, not 3 times but

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

ok now you’re wasting my time...how old are you?

I literally asked a question like is there laws on the books for getting on cam and youre getting upset and sensitive too


Look breh you saw what the thread title was. I've had discussion with other folks in here, they educated me and it made sense and I accepted it and then some of it I disagreed with and the convo was straight fwd

Now you're trying to insult me just cause I asked a question about a point that you made. If it's too sensitive a topic yall ain't gotta come in here. Imma end this conversation with you cause you obviously cant have it

How are dudes gonna get educated on rape and sexual assault if we never ask questions?

I'm not a rapist so this is literally stuff that I don't know cause in my life 9offline, it never really comes up in my personal living situation that often

And the few times it did, mostly it was women lying. Like literally caught in lies

 

[TheBigBopper]

poor advice, op

lol this is some of the best advice a man can get. Depending on the circumstances, if a woman has told me she’s gotten raped just once, im running the other way because I don’t wanna be falsely accused. fukk that. And before anyone brings this up, false rape accusations are actually much higher than 2%. In reality, there are several studies where the false accusation rate is as low as 2-8% to as high as 40+%. I’m not fukking taking my chances.


It’s just like when employers avoid litigious employees. It’s proper liability management.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

If she tells you she was rapped more than once then then cutt her completely. Shes either in those situations because of drugs, abuse or mental health issues.

 

[old pig]

I literally asked a question like is there laws on the books for getting on cam and youre getting upset and sensitive too

no a more accurate descriptor is “annoyed”...you’re a supposed adult who’s not familiar w/ what statutory rape is smh?

...and I suspect you’re purposely being obtuse in some instances...I’m familiar w/ the story you’re speaking of...and the cam incident was obviously not her only account...so for you to ask that means one of two things...either you didn’t understand what you read...or you did but are purposely focusing on that one account to ignore my larger point that she was a victim of statutory rape multiple times according to her story that doesn’t just include the cam situation

 

[Frump]

Never delt with that but I’ve been with chicks who were molested and I’d imagine it’s similliar

I can’t do it anymore. It’s nothing against them I know they can’t help it and what happened to them is beyond disgusting but it’s unfortunately too much damage done to someone who gets sexually abused that unfortunately most times stays with them their whole lives and is very hard to deal
with

it’s a shame because these women were good people at their core but the damage done to them messes them up so badly psychologically that it’s impossible to deal with without taking a toll on you as well

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

no a more accurate descriptor is “annoyed”...you’re a supposed adult who’s not familiar w/ what statutory rape is smh

Annoyed why?

Were you raped too?

You were in the thread about that gamer woman having sex with an underage boy and I dont remember you being this annoyed


This is what posters are talking about when they say that little boys don't matter to ppl


Yall here ready to fight cause I asked a QUESTION about a girl getting raped

But yall was laughing it up about the little 14 year old boy that was being "raped" by the grown woman in the gamer thread I see yall

 

[old pig]

Were you raped too?

lmao there you go back to the dumb shyt...ya I’m definitely speaking to a child regardless of your actual age

 

[Blankthawtz]

Rape is a touchy subject...

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

lmao there you go back to the dumb shyt...ya I’m definitely speaking to a child regardless of your actual age

that was obviously a joke. And you are proving my point. Like I said, folks were joking all throughout the thread about the gamer dude being molested and/or raped, but you didn't get "annoyed" with their jokes and call them children

but because this thread is about a female being molested and/or raped, now can't nobody say nothing funny

 

[old pig]

^^^

nikka you have no point...you are clearly ignorant about rape...statutory rape in particular and being defensive about it...the bold is what I’m annoyed w/

in the other thread all the jokes were about the loser ass bytch who molested the little boy...there were a handful of ppl who tried to say the kid wanted it and they got rightfully called out for their bullshyt rhetoric

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Never delt with that but I’ve been with chicks who were molested and I’d imagine it’s similliar

I can’t do it anymore. It’s nothing against them I know they can’t help it and what happened to them is beyond disgusting but it’s unfortunately too much damage done to someone who gets sexually abused that unfortunately most times stays with them their whole lives and is very hard to deal
with

it’s a shame because these women were good people at their core but the damage done to them messes them up so badly psychologically that it’s impossible to deal with without taking a toll on you as well

I have a good controversial answer to this cued up but Imma keep it to myself since brehs being all sensitive in here.

 

[Frump]

That's not really all that unheard of, especially if the first instance of rape/molestation occurred at a young age. Rape can leave victims feeling dirty, "used" and blaming themselves, resulting in low self-worth which can lead them to engage in shytty coping mechanisms like drugs, alcohol and hanging out in bad/unsafe environments, trusting the wrong types of people or seeking the wrong kind of attention.

Sometimes they even lose a grasp on what's "normal". A chick that was molested at 5 or 6 by an older relative might think it's perfectly okay to be 13 and "dating" a 21yr old man. Not because she's 'fast' or a hoe, but because older men have always been "interested" in her sexually so to her young mind, that's normal and acceptable.

As far as the twitch chick goes.....I just read her story and she comes off exactly like that. It sounds like she was sexually abused early in life and once she got to her teens, started hanging out in the gaming community where got attention from grown men which seemed normal to her.

One of my best friends was molested by her uncle and her grandfather jerked off in front of her.

she always seems to be with either sugar daddies or sketchy dudes. She just can’t seem to want anyone normal.

she also finds herself in weird situations all the time. Like some guy waking down the block jerking off in front of her or uber drivers telling her sex stories etc

it’s weird there seems to be people who can sense those who were victims and prey on them

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

^^^

nikka you have no point...you are clearly ignorant about rape...statutory rape in particular and being defensive about it...the bold is what I’m annoyed w/

I admitted this like 10 posts ago!

Yes, I am very ignorant on rape and I've been getting educated in this very thread, and then when you brought up another topic and I asked a question about it, YOU got defensive and "annoyed"

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

This is a rough one. I believe what @Booksnrain says is the truth in majority of cases.
Still. some there can be some "nuance"

Had a coworker/close friend of 10 years. She was in a mentally abusive relationship with a much older man. I was willing to be serious with her and leave my ex if she did the same. Never could bring herself to do so.

Forward 10 years later, she finally admits she was raped by family members and was unhappy with her dude. We're chilling and she asks (key word, asks) if I wanted to have sex with her. I was shocked , but I took her up on the offer. Only condidtions were: Either she finally leaves dude and we can be serious
( i was single now) or not tell dude and we'd be just messing around.

So what does she do? Rubs it in her man's face almost immediately. Then next day offers to UBER me over to come hit again. When i voiced my displeasure, the whole thing changed in her mind. All of a sudden , i was the one taking advantage of her. Although i was there for her when she admitted her rapes and I looked out for her when she was sick. We stop talking, then she hits me up on LinkedIN of all places and asked if I was seeking therapy for my issue. I ask her to clarify and she said what i did was basically rape. I was floored, cause I had to basically be talked into sexing her. She even contacted my exes on social media to tell them, in her words "I fukked her too hard". She can't quite use the R word with them, because she knows i kept all of our convos. Point being, in her messed up mind, I raped her, but shes smart enough to know that evidence points to otherwise.

I hate this story, but I do it to show that being previously raped does fukk up people's minds and can kill potential for real, loving interactions.

 

[old pig]

I admitted this like 10 posts ago!

Yes, I am very ignorant on rape and I've been getting educated in this very thread, and then when you brought up another topic and I asked a question about it, YOU got defensive and "annoyed"

I didn’t bring up any other topic...this is what being defensive gets you...you’ve lost sight of the actual conversation and just saying shyt out of pride...I spoke on the same girl you were talking about and said she was a victim of statutory rape and you are refusing to acknowledge that as rape

Actually if you read her stories, she was never raped. She doesnt know what rape is obviously...