if a woman tells you she's been raped multiple times - not once, not twice, not 3 times but

[perfectblack999]

Why is this even a thread? Someone please bush this

 

[Jean Jacket]

Fathers,brothers,uncles and grandfathers are the main ones raping these girls

Facts and Stats

That's a sad statistic.

Awareness is still key.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Why is this even a thread? Someone please bush this

Tough topic.

 

[Taadow]

and before the coli simps come at me, this is a spin from the gamer Super Smash Brothers thread. Cause one of the chics in that community put out a statement today saying she was raped and sexually assaulted MULTIPLE times.

Okay okay hol’ up...because these days “Rape” and “sexual assault” are two
different things. “Sexual assault” covers a lot of things...

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Okay okay hol’ up...because these days “Rape” and “sexual assault” are two
different things. “Sexual assault” covers a lot of things...

True but that's a direct quote if you click the link, breh breh

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Being abused especially when young can create a mentality of worthlessness that makes some place themselves in vulnerable situations...thus increasing the likelihood of repeated abuse. Some types of men prey on these types of chicks and know what to look for.

This is very sad and it takes a lot of inner strength and mental work for a rape victim to overcome that potential abuse carousel.

This is the best explanation I've ever gotten on this.

Thank you.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This is the best explanation I've ever gotten on this.

Thank you.

No problem. I had to ask somebody about this shyt too. I didn’t wanna sound like an insensitive a$$hole on some “Damn AGAIN?!” type energy, but at the same time I thought there has to be some type of behavioral pattern too. I work in mental health and have colleagues that specialize in counseling particularly for sexual abuse. They gave me an explanation. Made a lot of sense afterwards.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

No problem. I had to ask somebody about this shyt too. I didn’t wanna sound like an insensitive a$$hole on some “Damn AGAIN?!” type energy, but at the same time I thought there has to be some type of behavioral pattern too. I work in mental health and have colleagues that specialize in counseling particularly for sexual abuse. They gave me an explanation. Made a lot of sense afterwards.

Dap plus reputation. That's honestly how I was feeling but I can see now how a woman could possibly be a repeat victim

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Dap plus reputation. That's honestly how I was feeling but I can see now how a woman could possibly be a repeat victim

Yeah there’s shyt I be thinking and I be like “Man...this is gonna sound horrible if I take it there!”
So I know exactly how u feel b:c it’s such a hard convo to have.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Yeah there’s shyt I be thinking and I be like “Man...this is gonna sound horrible if I take it there!”
So I know exactly how u feel b:c it’s such a hard convo to have.

Although... with that being said... there are some that say they were raped to get attention too. I've run into them too and they make it harder for real victims with their crying wolf

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Although... with that being said... there are some that say they were raped to get attention too. I've run into them too and they make it harder for real victims with their crying wolf

Me too...I’ve discussed that dynamic here before. That’s some stage 5 cray cray shyt.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Me too...I’ve discussed that dynamic here before. That’s some stage 5 cray cray shyt.

Yeah. It's some type of cognitive dissonance cause if they were sane, they would know rape ain't something to joke about

 

[Contrefaire]

That's not really all that unheard of, especially if the first instance of rape/molestation occurred at a young age. Rape can leave victims feeling dirty, "used" and blaming themselves, resulting in low self-worth which can lead them to engage in shytty coping mechanisms like drugs, alcohol and hanging out in bad/unsafe environments, trusting the wrong types of people or seeking the wrong kind of attention.

Sometimes they even lose a grasp on what's "normal". A chick that was molested at 5 or 6 by an older relative might think it's perfectly okay to be 13 and "dating" a 21yr old man. Not because she's 'fast' or a hoe, but because older men have always been "interested" in her sexually so to her young mind, that's normal and acceptable.

As far as the twitch chick goes.....I just read her story and she comes off exactly like that. It sounds like she was sexually abused early in life and once she got to her teens, started hanging out in the gaming community where got attention from grown men which seemed normal to her.

 

[EA]

I’m not gonna assume they’re lying because I know women that have been sexually abused multiple times but I do know for a fact they have a lowered sense of worth and that leads to them sometimes “walking into” being sexually abused due to their clouded judgement. Sometimes, they even disassociate the act from their abusers because “at least he loves them.”

My advice to anyone that is talking to a girl that’s been sexually abused before, unless they’re actively in therapy and actioning their healing (i.e. distancing themselves from anything tied to their abusers), don’t date them. You may not end up as the next person they accuse but you’re certainly gonna be handling their baggage and dealing with their isms.

 

[Low End Derrick]

poor advice, op