If a woman buys you lunch, she’s not feelin you.

Luke Cage

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Very odd, everytime a womans paid for me ive hit, to the point i take it if theyre paying they gonna let u hit, however all the women said from before we went out that theyre paying
If she takes you out and buys you lunch. Thats different. If you take her out and she doesn't let pay then she not feelin you. either because of what i said or because she was expecting you to insist on paying but didn't.
 

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If she takes you out and buys you lunch. Thats different. If you take her out and she doesn't let pay then she not feelin you. either because of what i said or because she was expecting you to insist on paying but didn't.
Definitely not always true.
 

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You lost at saying you could tell she wasn't feeling you. Work on your confidence breh. I been in a relationship for years, but I still check the temperature on some of these single women and no matter the situation, they are always curious/interested if they're giving you the time of day. Aside from them being attracted to you (if you #uglygang, my condolences:francis:), your ability to hold and guide a conversation in your favor is everything. When I was driving Lyft I was unintentionally pulling women from all kinds different backgrounds just from the depth of the conversations. Some want someone who listens, some want someone they feel inspired by, some just want dikk :yeshrug:. You gotta know how to identify the signs and you're in my guy
 

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I think you focusing on the wrong thing

I think they feel you but after they see the way you eat and what you ask to eat they get turned off

Stop asking for salad on the side and eat some damn pork nikka like a man:ufdup:
 

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So apparently, I’m homeless. Have self esteem issues & ugly gang.

:russ:

Thanks @Luke Cage for the seriousness.
No problem, i think what some the brehs in here are confusing is the fact that her not feeling you at a certain time isn't some set in stone forever and always feeling. You still might get the draws later, but that doesn't mean she was feeling you the whole time. This might sound crazy, but sometimes woman change their mind. nikkas think because they got the p*ssy that a woman was worshipping the ground they walk on. Do we feel that way about every woman we smashed? No,

i remember smashing a 2 that happened to catch me when i when i was at a hotel for a night between flights on thanksgiving day. she was a fat girl staying in the room next to me, she knocked on my door and offered me some Turkey she had in a tupperware container. I was like :scust:
smashed her twice that night anyways and caught my flight the next morning and never saw her again. :yeshrug:
 

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I’ve noticed each time I’ve went for lunch with women & they pay, I can tell they aren’t feelin me, but want something else (resources, etc)

What do y’all think?

:jbhmm:

Edit: These women would ask to meet for lunch
Well, I don't know about most women, but this is certainly true in my case. Well, that's if I am just talking to a guy. If I am not feeling a dude that I am dating and he took me out to dinner first, or spend lots of money on me I usually return the favor by taking him out so h.e don't get the false impression that I am willing to fukk him because he did take me out. I actually had one guy get pissed at me because I offered to buy him dinner instead of having sex with him after he spoiled me.
 

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Well, I don't know about most women, but this is certainly true in my case. Well, that's if I am just talking to a guy. If I am not feeling a dude that I am dating and he took me out to dinner first, or spend lots of money on me I usually return the favor by taking him out so h.e don't get the false impression that I am willing to fukk him because he did take me out. I actually had one guy get pissed at me because I offered to buy him dinner instead of having sex with him after he spoiled me.
So if u do like a guy ull let him pay? This is super lowkey prostitiution mentality, you link finance to ur pvssy
 

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But it's also could be a double whammy because, for the guys that I am actually dating and we are in a solid relationship I don't mind spending money on him.
 
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The things you dumb insecure nikkas say for daps and reactions is just comedy at this point.

Most women on average aren't going to waste money (not even $10) on a man she has no interest in, men who've actually dated women IRL (unlike most of you dweebs who fabricate stories about being with women) know that on most occasions when a woman potentially views you as a partner, there's a strong chance she'll buy you things on sight especially if she's hooked on you mentally.

Yes there is a chance that the whole lunch thing was a reaction on her part on some "you're a nice guy, hey let me buy lunch" scenario ... but what you're saying is backwards, it sounds like you're doubting/unsure about your "manhood" because she paid for lunch, so now you're tripping out with a bunch of these thoughts playing mind games.

Just relax, it's not that serious...damn :mjlol:.
 

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The things you dumb insecure nikkas say for daps and reactions is just comedy at this point.

Most women on average aren't going to waste money (not even $10) on a man she has no interest in, men who've actually dated women IRL (unlike most of you dweebs who fabricate stories about being with women) know that on most occasions when a woman potentially views you as a partner, there's a strong chance she'll buy you things on sight especially if she's hooked on you mentally.

Yes there is a chance that the whole lunch thing was a reaction on her part on some "you're a nice guy, hey let me buy lunch" scenario ... but what you're saying is backwards, it sounds like you're doubting/unsure about your "manhood" because she paid for lunch, so now you're tripping out with a bunch of these thoughts playing mind games.

Just relax, it's not that serious...damn :mjlol:.
Summed up perfectly
 

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Naw you got it fukked up. If chicks are feeling you heavy they will have you fed free of charge (especially when you pipe them good).:wow:

If they not really feeling you (or at all) then obviously they gon want YOU to pay the food for them. :manny:
 
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