If a girl you hooked up with in the past, calls you out the blue, says she's homeless and asks to stay with you ...

[Belize King]

She's from a Sinaloan family that has a ranch in the high desert of California she's been living at home her whole life and is their princess

I figure if they kicked her out, those are the people that love her the most - might be something going on that I don't want to get into, or perhaps she just got out of a relationship

I've seen her twice before this and those two times were 6 months apart

I don't have regular contact with my family either so if I went missing and she was here with a fake mustache pretending to be me she'd probably get away with it


Single, yes
It was good the first time. The second time she was drinking and actually sneaking alcohol during her stay, this is a factor of dishonesty and it wasn't even necessary to hide this, she just hid it because she knew I don't drink
Clean, with no kids

Sex is a Sacral EXchange of energy, you really don't want to just be exchanging this energy with everyone out there - you don't know what kind of energy you can be picking up on

I am the type of person that wants to help but with a woman things can get dirty quickly, particularly if drinking is an issue. You have a woman in your house under these terms all it takes is one call to the police and you can literally end up being taken out of your house in handcuffs with her closing your door behind you as the cops whisk you away


She is from Victorville, I call them VictorVillianz

My Sister stay in Apple Valley. Them high desert folks built different.

I’d stay away too because of the drinking.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Definitely no.

Women usually have stronger support networks than men. She should have a sister, cousin, homegirl etc., that can take her in. A dude she smashed a couple of times in the past would be very low on most women's emergency contact list.

What that tells me........is that the people closest to her aren't willing to help her and there's probably a good reason.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

Definitely no.

Women usually have stronger support networks than men. She should have a sister, cousin, homegirl etc., that can take her in. A dude she smashed a couple of times in the past would be very low on most women's emergency contact list.

What that tells me........is that the people closest to her aren't willing to help her and there's probably a good reason.

Every bit of this.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

OP if u stop posting in the near future im going to assume u made the fatal mistake of ignoring our sound advice. Its with a heavy heart this thread will become a neg train. I mean, u will admittedly have bigger problems, but who wants to be remembered as a red rep poster

 

[Hater Eraser]

Dont. Do it.

 

[Gold]

I'm married

 

[Wargames]

I would have to confirm we are fukking or not, and if yes then she could keep the cash, and raid the fridge and sleep in my bed with me like any other chick spending the night. If she just wants it to be platonic I would tell her no. We’re not friends and I won’t extend that courtesy to you.

I would be hesitant to take money from her because by default that gives her some very basic rights of my house I wouldn’t want to give.

Flipside if she was just a female friend or any friend I would take the money and tell her to stay on the couch, probably feed them the first night but then tell them they are on their own for food going forward.

I just wouldn’t let someone I slept with before stay in my house if we ain’t sleeping together now. We’re not friends, we were either fukk buddies or lovers.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

I would have to confirm we are fukking or not, and if yes then she could keep the cash, and raid the fridge and sleep in my bed with me like any other chick spending the night. If she just wants it to be platonic I would tell her no. We’re not friends and I won’t extend that courtesy to you.

I would be hesitant to take money from her because by default that gives her some very basic rights of my house I wouldn’t want to give.

Flipside if she was just a female friend or any friend I would take the money and tell her to stay on the couch, probably feed them the first night but then tell them they are on their own for food going forward.

I just wouldn’t let someone I slept with before stay in my house if we ain’t sleeping together now. We’re not friends, we were either fukk buddies or lovers.

U bet be careful who u open ur four walls to brother. Im telling yall. Once someone establishes residency man its a nightmare getting them out if they refuse to go. A very expensive and aggravating nightmare and legally u gotta deal with it while they are sharing ur personal space.

The law is not on the homeowner side in any way and every couch surfer worth his weight in dust knows and will laugh in ur face as they exploit every last one of them.

 

[Wargames]

U bet be careful who u open ur four walls to brother. Im telling yall. Once someone establishes residency man its a nightmare getting them out if they refuse to go. A very expensive and aggravating nightmare and legally u gotta deal with it while they are sharing ur personal space.

The law is not on the homeowner side in any way and every couch surfer worth his weight in dust knows and will laugh in ur face as they exploit every last one of them.

I didn’t consider that in the case of friends. You’re right better to just let them crash as a guesr and take no money.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

I didn’t consider that in the case of friends. You’re right better to just let them crash as a guesr and take no money.

Its a surefire way to destroy the friendship my g. And as been said people get put out, and their own people wont put them up, its usually a reason.

We had to put my own little bro out after making this very mistake when he was in the worst throes of a heroin addiction. It was a nightmare. Like it nearly destroyed my marriage. He made our lives a living hell. He REFUSED to leave and legally the police could do NOTHING. In the end i had to provoke him to attack me and get a restraining order. That was like the only cheat code we had.

Little white bastid hit hard asf too(thats my little bro ).It did the trick though. Then u got his bleeding heart shimp girlfriend aka walking atm machine showing up at my door tryna guilt me into lifting the order.

Its a common tactic with troublesome couch surfers. Ask them why dont THEY take the person in and then let the ing and juelzery commence

 

[2 one 3]

Victorville…


She probably from felony flats


Them 760 hoes dusty…

 

[beenz]

Says she is practically homeless and offers to pay you to spend a few days at your spot

Is this something you'd be open to?

Help her get back on her feet or is that payment an advance on a list of future unrecoupable expenses?

I was about to do this last night but I asked a few questions about how she got into the situation and she was being dodgy so I had to fall back

no sir

 

[⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐]

I initially felt a little bit bad about not ing but now after these replies I am affirmed in clarity, realizing right now if she were here on day 2 it'd be the second day that I'd be nervous about leaving the house for any reason

 

[Roid Jones]

I would be sceptical, why call me? where are her people?

 

[capt_saveahoe]

I literally just had this happened to me. I made a mistake of giving her S1000 to help move and get air conditioning a few years ago cos she had a baby and her baby daddy was useless. She messaged me saying she lost her job, her car died and she is about to be homeless. I told her to get help from her family and baby daddy instead, she replied that her baby daddy is dead and she is estranged from her family. I blocked her. sometimes we got to deal with the consequences of our actions.