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Well your purpose may just be to satisfy animal urges but some of use are here to have spiritual journeys and experience what this physical reality has to offer. If you want to limit your reality to that of natural instincts cool just don't put that on us who live for more than eating sleeping and procreation.

the purpose of life is to give life purpose, and reproduction is a huge part of that agenda.

be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28)

God didn’t intend Adam and Eve to have children just to have children. In the remainder of Genesis 1:28, we see a useful and desired result: to “fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

if your not having children the next best thing to be doing after is to be serving your creator.
 

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the purpose of life is to give life purpose, and reproduction is a huge part of that agenda.

be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28)

God didn’t intend Adam and Eve to have children just to have children. In the remainder of Genesis 1:28, we see a useful and desired result: to “fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

if your not having children the next best thing to be doing after is to be serving your creator.

Humanity was already checked that box. We got plenty of people on this planet.

And again if your purpose us strictly primal cool. But don't put that simple way of thinking of purpose on others. There is a big world beyond fukking and having babies.
 

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Do not get me wrong, im not an incel. However, females nowadays do not want to have kids. If they do not want to be nurturers as they were designed to be, why should men uphold the role as providers? Aren’t we providors for her AND THE CHILDREN we have together? Why do we need to provide for this female? What do they bring to the table?
What's the head game like?:patrice:
 

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Trust me... if a female tells u she doesn't wanna have kids...
For the most part, shes just talking about kids with you.. you ain't the nikka she choosin...
Females are hard wired to have kids ...
But to the dude she feels those googley eyed feelings for...
Or anyone that can help her have security
why can’t y’all accept that some people just don’t want kids? it doesn’t matter who they get with they just don’t want them.
 

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Geezus.

You know that sometimes people's goals and wants just don't aline. It just means you aren't compatible. Incompatibility is pretty common.

Ya'll be doing too much just because a woman isn't the right fit for you. The drama ya'll add to situations is so unnecessary.

So because a woman doesn't want the same things you want she's worthless and any woman like her is worthless? You're just not a right fit. Chalk it up to the game and keep it pushing. Everytime things don't go your way it doesn't need to be some epic battle of the sexes Shakespearean drama.

End Thread.

My cousin is one of them. She always said she never want to have kids and her fiance doesn't mind not to have kids too.
 

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If a woman doesn’t want kids that means she doesn’t want kids.

If a man doesn’t want kids it means he doesn’t want kids.

If you want kids and he or she doesn’t, that’s not the right person for you. Nothing really to discuss.

Exactly.
 

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These are facts,

fun for the short-term but terrible for the long-term.

infertility often leads to the 3 D's: Divorce, Depression and Devastation.

this is why you have to do a triple-take when choosing your spouse. :yes:
 

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A man or womans life can have purpose without the many shallow things we tend to place on pedestals

Rosa Louise McCauley Parks was an American activist in the civil rights movement best known for her pivotal role in the Montgomery Bus Boycott. The United States Congress has called her "the first lady of civil rights" and "the mother of the freedom movement".
Parks died of natural causes on October 24, 2005, at the age of 92, in her apartment on the east side of Detroit. She and her husband never had children and she outlived her only sibling.
I almost didnt wanna touch this... because I would never wanna talk about such a great lady in any half way borderline fukked up way...
But whatever she was able to accomplish in her life, is awesome but does not mean her husband didnt look at her like a fridge that cant keep shyt cold...
We dnt know how good or bad their relationship was because of that situation... maybe he wanted to have kids... so he got him a young jawn... (he was 10yrs older than her when they married)
Only to find out they couldn't have kids...
Would he have still married her if he knew they couldn't conceive a child.. we dnt know...
It's like saying MLK jr did great things in the civil rights moment, changed many lives...
But he didnt provide for his family...
You think all that other civil rights stuff really is gonna matter to Coretta, if her man aint being the man of the house....

P.S.... Good come back tho.... with the Rosa Parks Thing
 
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why can’t y’all accept that some people just don’t want kids? it doesn’t matter who they get with they just don’t want them.
That's not what the conversation is tho, sis...
A woman can not wanna have kids all she wants... that's her prerogative...
The thread is asking what is her value
Basically some ppl put alot of value on a women's ability to reproduce
 
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